User talk:Dr.sunset shimmer

how to be confident when talking to a crowd? i have had a lot of cases in the past when pepole and buissness men and students come to me and say "Dr.sunset,i have a presintaion,and i am scared to speak or tell my speech in front of pepole" So?what is the soltion to such cases? 1- Be confident:- sure being confident in such a situation can be hard,but trust me when i say it woks at the end sometimes pepole mistake being afraid to do a mistake in front of people is fear of talking to a crowed the fact thet you should know is that, there is a huge diffrence between "being afraid of talking in front of a crowed" and "being afraid of doing a mistake in front of a crowd" So, it's better for the parents to let there kids discribe there inner feelings and emotions for them self as, they are the only pepole who know them self even better than you. if your kid or even you are afraied to talk in font of a crowed, i would advise you to talk you speech with a person whom you trust. as he/she will tell you if there is any mistake without hurting your feelings of course. But if you kid or you are "afraid of doing a mistake in front of the crowed"i am going to tell you a few things that will make you feel a lot better. 1- it's so normal for any one to do mistakes, as even the biggest science pepole had to try a lot before succeding as for exampele:-the scientist who invented the light bulb tried 100 times before inventing the light bulb we all use to light our house today. so you should know that with every itme you fail or do amistake you are getting better by every time you try again. and that you will finaly suceed and hear is a INPORTANT TIP for parents:- avoid at all coasts calling you child stupid if they didn't suceed once but, the right thing to do is keep giveing confidence and corage to them of you want them to be the beat pepole whom suceed in life. but thre are some cases when they tell me "D.r sunset my friends are makeing fun of me when i dont suceed or fail.and that makes me feel despert so i avoid to try agian so i don't be made fun of". weell. first don't take there word and don't lat them effet you and keep trying. second they aren't your true friends. i know thai can be hard to take but bear with me and see my point of veiew, your friends are the pepole who are always there for you and a true friend is a friend that will understand with you at nice and hard times no matter what they would sacrfice any thing even there life for you and keep cheering you on thirdly you one day when you suceed you will return back to them with the winners and then you will have the oppertunitty to make fun of them just like what they did to you. 2- tell the listeners about how you feel before speaking:-]-i know what you are thinking:-How on earth do yo want me to say that "i'm feeling embaressed, afraid to talk or afraid of doing a silly mistake" But trust me it will make you feel more confident and helps to reduce anxiety as when you tell your listeners how you feel they will understand you and if you do a mistake they won't really make fun of you or fire you from your job mabye when they see how brave you are for telling them how you feel they will cheer you on. 3-things you shouldn't do while talking to a crowd:-firstly:-don't be late:- being late gives a bad imression about you as your boss would like his employes to be on time.and if you have a emergency case like :- you're sick, call your boss and tell him your case he will understand and give you a day off.Second:- avoid bad habbits such as:-playing with your hair, biting your nails thise bad habbits may let then think that you aren't confident,nervous and a lot of other bad things that in most cases aren't true about you. so try to let them see you good manners. Avoid desturbing others:- don't shout,knocking your nails on the table. as when you are at work,meeting or saying a speech the others need to concentraite in what is being told and it mabye be something inportant. 4-let your friend,family member cheer you on: always let your friends family member or any one you trust come to your speech to cheer you on as when you are with the pepole you love you may feel that nothing can go wrong when you are with them you feel a lot safer and it will be much more fun to enjoy your victory and happiness with them. 5- choose the way you talk according to your situation: as we all know English talking is separated in tow main parts:- 1- formal:-formal talking is used when talking to high pepole,boss or at big companies if you use formal when talking to your friends this may give a bad sign about you as it may seem like you are trying to say i am better than you or only my words are the ones to be followed. 2- informal :- on the other hand you use informal talking with your friend family members or in a normal confersation. as you can't use informal talking with you boss it may make you seem so low. so use the right type of talking in the right situation to stay on the right side. thank you for reading and if you need anything send me a text and i will help D.r sunset shimmer