User talk:DylanEhlersMom

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I noticed that one of the first articles you edited was Disappearance of Dylan Ehler, which appears to be dealing with a topic with which you may have a conflict of interest. In other words, you may find it difficult to write about that topic in a neutral and objective way, because you are, work for, or represent, the subject of that article.&#32;Your recent contributions may have already been undone for this very reason.

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 * The one thing I edited is dylans middle name. his mother can't fix his name because of conflict of interest DylanEhlersMom (talk) 13:20, 10 May 2022 (UTC)


 * @DylanEhlersMom: Remember that we do not know who you are, as we have no proof of your identity, therefore we cannot take your word as reference.  NonsensicalSystem (error?)(.log) 13:27, 10 May 2022 (UTC)


 * Please review WP:OUTING before making allegations against other users about off-Wiki matters. Since a court case is involved, please also review WP:No legal threats. —C.Fred (talk) 13:30, 10 May 2022 (UTC)


 * Unfortunately as this appears to be an ongoing issue, information shouldn't be changed about the case or its subject without a valid external source. See wikipedia's policy on 'original research' which is our term for information furnished only by the editor themselves, or otherwise not from a reliable source.
 * To address your concern about other users, I have seen your comments regarding another user connected to this case, Dylansupporter, and I checked the page Disappearance of Dylan Ehler myself and found that all edits by that user have also been reverted by other users. There are given no more power or authority than you are. GabberFlasted (talk) 13:30, 10 May 2022 (UTC)

May 2022
Do not add personal information about other contributors to Wikipedia without their explicit permission. Wikipedia operates on the principle that every contributor has the right to remain completely anonymous. Posting personal information about another user is strictly prohibited under Wikipedia's harassment policy. Wikipedia's policy on this issue is strictly enforced and your edits have been reverted and/or suppressed, not least because such information can appear on web searches. Wikipedia's privacy policy is to protect the privacy of every user, including you. Persistently adding personal information about other contributors will result in being blocked from editing. Dreamy Jazz talk to me &#124; my contributions 13:34, 10 May 2022 (UTC)


 * I'm sorry, but this entire wiki is about me and my family. I get what you're saying, but really, where my privacy lol. Certain people are legally obligated to refrain, and they are not. Seems everyone's privacy and protection is for anyone but dylan DylanEhlersMom (talk) 13:38, 10 May 2022 (UTC)


 * There's a curious privacy/security matter to be addressed: how do we know you're who you say you are? By a strict read of policy, your account could be blocked until you have verified your identity via email with the Volunteer Response Team.


 * Frankly, for the kinds of concerns you have about other users, your first line of action should be to contact the VRT through email. Everything in a talk page discussion—unless suppressed for gross policy violations—is publicly viewable. Sensitive concerns are best handled with VRT in email. If they can't handle the issue, they can direct you to another entity at Wikipedia or the Wikimedia Foundation that can. —C.Fred (talk) 14:07, 10 May 2022 (UTC)

I will reach out to them thank you, I did already try to reach out to them through email with no response...I could have come on as an anonymous account saying whatever i felt like, hiding behind the privacy. But I'm here, as dylans mother, being open and honest. I can and will prove who I am and the circumstances of this situation to the appropriate people. DylanEhlersMom (talk) 14:27, 10 May 2022 (UTC)