User talk:Elizabeth jacqueline mpanga

hello, i am talking to all the young ladies that are finding it hard to find the one man that they can committe to who wants to committe to them. i have been there and it is not easy. i am not married yet but my quest to find a life partner has led to alot of pain and heart ache for me. one thing i have learnt through all my experiences is that the desire of the flesh is vetry strong and as young ladies we strongly need to guard against lust. lust is the devils biggest tool against us the youth especially. thses days sex is a common thing and peple easily talk about it like it is just one of those things that we can just do if we want.

to all the ladies that are still virgins, good on you that is some achievemnet to be proud of. keep it that way until you do meet that one special somebody meant for you. to all those ladies that have not yet found those meant for them take it easy and do not push things. its a shame that us ladies reakly push each other into thse things so just we can fit in with the rest. oh my God if only all of you could know what i now know you would stop all this pushing and letting your friends get to you. God has said that he knows our individual needs and wants. he knows what our hearts desire the most but he alone knows what is best for us because he has seen the future and he knows us better than we know ourselves. if we can trust him with our lives each night we go to bed why can't we trust that he is more than capable of providing our every need? hik about it ladies. he knows that no one wants to be lonely and he knows that weall want to be loved no matter what. i have been there and i have suffered tremmendously. i do not wish for any of you that are reafding this to suffer the way i have. Sex is not the way to strength or build a relationship. the way to do it is through mutual respect, trust, friendship and of course not forgetting God. God must be the centre of everything that you do in your life. i forgot god in my relationship[s that is why i have ended up so hurt most of the time. but i told myself that i do not want to get hurt any more so i invited God to be a part of my life in all aspects. only he can guide me in the right way.

thinmk about it. if you really get down on your knees and ask for God's guidance you will see that what i am saying is true. take it from someone who is paying a very dear and huge price for her mistakes. i do not wish for anyone to go through what i have gone through. may god be with you all.

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