User talk:Godswill Mbre

FORGIVENESS: THE KEY FOR HAVING PEACE OF MIND.

The word forgiveness is a very delicate word, which you have to think and free yourself before you declare (I have forgiven you). The word has been described by many scholars and psychologists as a word that does not always denote the action of the user (victim) base on the degree or level of his anger at that very moment. This is because forgiveness is letting everything go.

Forgiveness from psychologist point of view, is a "conscious deliberate decision to release feeling of resentment or vengeance towards a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness". Therefore, to forgive is to stop feeling anger towards someone who has done something wrong to you. Most people assume if they forgive their offenders, they let off the hook (Scot free) and get to go about their merry ways, while they unfairly suffer the action, this is simply the thought that over shadow the weak's mind.

Trailing on the memory lane, it is affirmative that forgiveness has always been the antidote that soothe conflict. Using Bible as a reference point. In one of Jesus Christ teachings "for if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive you but if you do not forgive others their trespasses neither will your father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15). Chiephen once said " unforgiving person is like someone who is in a dark room with switch in his hand but refuses to turn on the light". Nothing is as bad as seating on the isle seat but be the last on the offering queue. It is crystal clear that a world without forgiveness is simply a war zone. The burden in the heart of unforgiving person is heavier than a storey building. The greatest peace is a peace of mind and you can have that if you free your mind from any kind of resentments or vengeance.

....Always try to forgive someone no matter what........