User talk:Hezzy11063

she as fooled them all.

on the 30/08/08 my wife smashed up my house she did this in front of our 16month old daughter.this is not the first time she as done this it was the fourth.while i was out i kept getting abusive calls from her 12 in all.obviously when i came home and saw the state of my house we began to argue.my wife is thai and i brought her to england when she became pregnant the day our daughter was born was the greatest day of my life.her abuse was getting worse and i told her to leave because our daughter was crying and looked frightened.ive told her to leave in the past when this as happened and she as come back next day all calm.the next thing she came at me with the door that she had kicked off its hinges i put my left hand up to protect my head and pushed her away with my right hand.i went downstairs to get out of the way she packed a bag then left.i knew she would go to her thai friends. later that evening i got a knock at the door around midnight i thought this was my wife and thought shes had enough time to calm down so i went to answer the door to my surprise they were four police officers stood there.one of the officers said i was under arrest for alledged assault.he said get dressed and he followed me upstairs.at this point i pointed out the damage what she had done he said were not interested in that your under arrest get dressed quickly.i did this and was taken to the police station,i was locked up for 16hours.i was asked at the time if i wanted a solicitor i said no because i have not done anything wrong. i went to court for this assault my wife turned up with an interpreter as for some reason her english as suddenly become very poor.has the case went on i felt confident the court would see the truth.she stood in the dock and told many lies although she admitted to tearing up our wedding photos,she admitted throwing my clothes all over the house,and to throwing house plants out onto the garden she also admitted hitting me on the arm with a piece of wood from the door.she produced some photos of injuries bruised arms etc she had no bruises when she left my house but she did have a cut finger which i thought she had done when she smashed the door off.i also had photos of the damage she had caused she kept on lying through her interpreter.this only made me more confident the magistrates would see what she was doing.then she came out with it saying i had a drink problem,i go out for a couple of hours on a friday night and sunday lunch.i never go drunk yet she said i was always getting drunk,she even said i would pick up our daughter in a drunken state and fall over.this was yet more lies,after all day in court the magistrates went to decide if i was lying or she was.my solicitor had a word with me she said she thought things had gone very well. we were called back in my wife had left by this time the magistrate said we find your wifes evidence creditable and yours not.i couldnt believe my ears,i then said have i a right to appeal he said i did.i then said to him i still dont get to see my daughter.he said oh er er well see your solicitor about that because of all this i havent seen my daughter since.i have been told that she asks for daddy this is breaking my heart.i have just arrived back from county court trying to get my wife to let me see my baby.she sits there all innocent and she fools everybody,another £210 wasted my wife has so many different womens groups involved.today she said i was a violent drunk despite saying in court i was a good dad.i thought today she would see the hurt on my face and have some heart and let me see jade.there are two victims here myself and my daughter yet im told because made out to be a drunk and violent i have lost my little girl.the pain just gets worse yet she as said to people my niece included why doesnt he find a new woman and have another baby.she thinks because she left her son in thailand its easy she never even contacts him.i took her to visit her family in febuary this year yet when wegot to thailand she said it was to far to travel.i offered to pay for her parents fare to bangkok and pay there hotel she rung them and said to me her father was to busy with his work.on the flight home she told me she hadnt told them of my offer.she makes me out to be a bad man and has destroyed my life she has everybody believing her.when i met her she was working bars in hui hin thailand she had nothing and i gave her everything yet she does this to me.she knows its destroyng me not seeing my daughter,my solicitor tells me to appeal against the verdict and i think i will but its all getting expensive.all i want is to see my little girl i am missing out on her growing up.my wife as got everyone believing her and she keeps dishing dirt on me if only these people knew what she was like.when i went to court i asked if my friend whos a respected prison officer could testify in court as he as seen my wifes bad temper many times they refused.i must fight on but im starting to feel weak before i was optimistic now im not.Hezzy11063 (talk) 12:53, 13 October 2008 (UTC)