User talk:Jasneet 1711

Bad habits of listening
1. Calling the subject uninteresting: In this world ,there is nothing uninteresting. There are only uninteresting people. Bad listener often find a subject too dry and dusty to command their attentions. 2. Criticizing the delivery: The ways the things are present is a delivery of message. You should be interested in the content not in the person who is delivers it. Bad listener find fault with the way a speaker looks ,acts and talks. Good listener may make of few of the same criticism but they quickly begin to pay attention to what is said not how it is said. 3. Getting over stimulated: Whenever some delivery goes on ,sometime we get over stimulated. Over stimulated means to excited or interested in something. listening efficiency drops to zero when the listener react so strongly to one part of the presentation. 4. listening only for facts: Bad listener listen only for facts. You can retain the facts only when details are available. Good listener listen for the main ideas in the speech or lecture and use them as connecting threads to give sense and system to the whole. 5. Outlining everything: Outlining is a good habit, but outlining everything is a bad habit. Bad listener outline everything. Good listener are flexible. 6. Faking attention: Faking attention means physically you are here ,but mentally you are not. This is a most common habit. Those who fake attention often find it hard to concentrate even when they want to. fake attention means when somebody is talking to you and you act like you are interested but actually you fake it. Like when somebody speaks about the topic which you don't like then we just show that we are attentively listening to that person. 7. Tolerating or creating distractions: Poor listeners are easily distracted and may even create disturbance that interfere with their own listening efficiency and that of others. They started to talk with their neighbours, shuffle paper etc. 8. Avoiding the difficulty: The things which you don't know is difficult. Bad listener always try to avoid difficult things. Good listener never avoid the difficult things. 9.Being emotional: You should keep your emotion under control when you are listening. There are few people who does not control their emotions. This reduce their listening efficiency. Submitting to emotional words is a bad habit. Negative emotions such as sadness, anger or personal dislike may distract from listening at all. 10. Wasting through power: By actively listening, you are not just gathering data but building relationship. But wasting through power is a bad listening habit. Jasneet 1711 (talk) 03:52, 24 April 2024 (UTC)