User talk:Leena Valo

Fictional Fears

I definite the “FEAR” as; a reaction for everything threatens the man’s life or causes danger on his safety!

Fearing of fictional things is one of the biggest things I suffer from! I am telling you, I am not talking about fearing from future, what it might bring, and a report about my grades or punishment. No! I am talking about Fearing of something which is never going to be existed! I am talking about something the baby child fears of! I fear the darkness. I fear closing the curtains when I go to bed. I fear standing between two beds when it is dark. I fear sleeping against the wall… all those things I should not be frightened of but I am! Know this thing, they are not affecting on my life!

I have a thirteen-year-old brother who fears of watching scary movies or playing scary video games… but dad and my sisters always tell him not to be silly, and to be a man, since those things – in their minds – don’t scare a real man! They consider that kind of fears as cowardice!

Why we stop ourselves of fearing? Why we do that? It is a feeling that God has created within humans. As every other feeling… love, hate, anger, hunger… etc! Since the man has the right in every feeling he feels… then when he fears, he has the right to… even if he fears silly things!

It is a natural feeling! It is not a psychological disorder… when it is, then people can do something about it… but when it is not… when it is natural… let us fear!