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Ben Roethlisberger
Thanks for the additional clean up :) :p --  ►ShadowJester07  18:44, 24 June 2007 (UTC)

Missy Peregrym / Ben Roethlisberger
Hi. I'm not sure the claim of a romantic link between the Roethlisberger and Peregrym is good content to include in the articles. The source that you've cited merely hints at a connection, and relies on the reader to draw the conclusion. This is not a reliable source. Even if there was a good source, I think that the guidelines in Biographies of living persons would indicate that a removal was in order. Particularly: "An important rule of thumb when writing biographical material about living persons is "do no harm." Wikipedia is an encyclopedia, not a tabloid; it is not our job to be sensationalist, or to be the primary vehicle for the spread of titillating claims about people's lives. Biographies of living persons (BLP)s must be written conservatively, with regard for the subject's privacy." Please take a look at the guidelines. If you would like to have a discussion over the suitability of the content, I'd be all for it (here, or in Missy's page). I don't want to converse only through edit summaries. --GargoyleMT 21:29, 28 July 2007 (UTC)


 * Why is it that Roethlisberger and Natalie Gulbis were photographed together exactly ONCE, neither ever acknowledged they were dating, but she is routinely referred to as his ex-girlfriend by the media and there's a note of it here? Yet Roethlisberger and Missy Peregrym have been photographed together in at least five different cities; she has been in attendance at numerous pro-am golf tournaments in which he's participated (also noted by the media); per the link I noted in my last contribution she's let it be known that she flies out to Pittsburgh regularly and wants to be out there during the football season, but somehow they're not dating.  If you look at my contribution history I am not prone to undocumented additions or gossip and I am more than willing to provide links to the photos of which I speak, all of which have been published.  Per your criteria the information about Natalie Gulbis should be removed as well, since there is far less evidence of a relationship between her and Roethlisberger and the source providing the information claims it was given out by Gulbis' publicist, who said that they were only "speaking on the phone" and leans far more towards "gossip and titilation" than what I've provided re: Missy.  Thank you for your consideration.  MandalayVA 10:32, 31 July 2007 (UTC)


 * I don't follow Ben Roethlisberger's article, but if what you say about the other person is true, it should be removed. Feel free to take the initiative.  Even if Roethlisberger said they were dating, I think that it would be removable per what I quoted above from WP:BLP.  What you said about Peregrym is interesting, but ultimately, only information that is verifiable by a reliable source (that does fact checking and is responsible for its publishings) should be included in Wikipedia.  There's also a prohibition against original research, which would prevent someone put all those sightings of Peregrym and Roethlisberger in the article to let readers draw their own conclusion.  Your reply is enough to show you understand the issues and my concerns - I just wanted to head off more reverting should the information find its way into Peregrym's article again.  Thanks for your time. --GargoyleMT 13:12, 31 July 2007 (UTC)

Sigh ...
Taking out the stuff about Missy Peregrym isn't going to change the fact that he's dating her and she's confirmed it.

AfD nomination of I'm Not Sorry.net
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Lindsay Lohan and the RfC
There is an ongoing RfC on Talk:Lindsay Lohan about Samantha Ronson. It is inappropriate to re-add the disputed material before consensus is reached. Please discuss on the talk page rather than continuing to revert. Also please read WP:3RR. Thank you. Ward3001 (talk) 23:42, 29 July 2008 (UTC)

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