User talk:Narehz

The scars that matter [Divorce]
I wrote a play that dived deep into reality, pain, love, heartbreak, feeling wistful, and divorce but I will be dwelling on the core part divorce a blot which has evident and concrete scars in me growing up from a broken home I understand the intricacies and so I had to put this down to speak to the hearts and souls of the readers I want to speak the hearts of little children drowning every day in silence and trauma from the after effects on us. Growing up from a broken home is the worse experience any child can ever have there're cases of rape, accidents, wars, and others so much that the list got expensive but none can be equaled to what divorce does to a child, the worse damage that can happen to a child is that which cab affect the child's mind and that's what divorce focuses on apart from mental inbalance, emotional distress and psychological effects. Divorce cripples the child's mind and replaces the mind with van loads of insecurities, unanswered questions and fear of the unknown especially the outside world and the opposite sex leaving the child in a state of emotional jeopardy, unfocused and undecided I remember having to grow up sleeping and waking up crying without the most crucial party in parenting a mother, going to school at the beginning of a new term and while everyone is chatting about what they got as presents from their mum I'm barely a part of the class and now we're having insomia for a child in nursery or elementary school what do you think? Growing up with a bad stereotype about girls being chronic heart recking beings just because of past experiences it damaged my reasoning and thinking faculty leaving a child in such situations is like giving no thoughts for their well-being you can tell the results of leaving a child to grow on his/her own the consequences of the parent parties negligence can be very grave including anxiety, depression, or even total delusion, kids like us can end up being easily mislead or dive into any social vice as our immediate environment brings killing our confidence, and social relationships we then to be so reserved but not really introverts though but for the fear of what people to people inter-modal interface brings we tend to be over protective and obsessed with whatever we love showing affection the very wrong way since we grew up having from a place where presence is replaced with presents. We tend to hide in our shells, you won't be completely wrong if you say we're damaged kids products of bad decisions and choices, I remember thinking I was the reason for the separation being the last child they had before the divorce that really ate deep into my entirety. Growing up not trusting anybody including myself was the height if it having grown up with little or no experience of love and care I had the worse experiences myself some of us become pawns on the chess boards of our parents even objects of scorn, rape, maltreatment, human trafficking and modern slavery imagine being set up for something you know nothing about and getting punished for it even with a death sentence or life imprisonment Narehz (talk) 16:44, 10 August 2023 (UTC)
 * 1) Stay with your family.