User talk:Niravwalter

Dear Everyone, i m nirav, 29, from baroda india. i got married in last Feb05 and have been living with my parents. My wife, 27, is a simple and sweet girl. On 25th Oct 05 we came to know that she was pregnant. Everyone was very happy - it seemed so in the beginning. After the doctors visit we confirmed the pregnancy. My mother was neither happy nor sad about the news. she gave a very cold response to this which i could not understand. Now after 9 weeks my wife has had a miscarriage on the 27th of December. We immediately got her operated and now she is staying with her parents these days, recovering from the surgery.

I was shaken with this. My wife now has stareted blaming and accusing me and my parents that we did not take care of her health and so she has had a miscarriage.

I m trying to understand that as a husband what should be my role and how should i react to this situation. Even if i try to pacify my wife she is continuously repeating it that this happened only becoz of my carelessness and irresponsibility.

Please advise and guide.

nirav walter