User talk:Nirmal Rathore1921

The biggest Risk
The Biggest risk

The biggest risk is in raising kids, it's not as easy as we think because your kid will not be confined till you and your house, it's the most precious thing which you give to this world and society as well ,you are not going to walk along with him/her all the way he'll/she'll go. If you raise him/her with good morals then you are going to give the world or society a good human but if you are not raising him/her with the required morals then you are giving the world or society a big threat. You may have heard parents saying when they try to shield their kid's mistakes ,that it's our kid who the hell you are to speak up?I am sure that they haven't heard of the term "people are the real wealth of a nation" and obviously without people democracy ,dictatorship ,monarchy ,government are just mere words without any proper defination so where did the people come from ?and most importantly who these people are ?These are the people who were once a kid even kids of the parents who had someday said that his/her is our kid who the hell you are to speak up, Do you wonder that why parents of terrorists can't control their child ,the terrorist who destroys lives of many people ,who gave them that right? ,obviously no parents would guide their children to perform bad acts .Exactly, this is what the thing is, your child is yours till he attains age of 18 after then besides being your child he became a citizen of a country as well ,part of this world as well To be very honest your teachings not impact his character entirely ,besides that ,influence of companions and environment too leave a deep impact on his/her thoughts but the good morals taught by you still sticks to a corner of his/her heart which sometimes results as the only thought or thing or maybe the most important thing that turned his/her life back to the good if in case he gets into bad trap. Morals help a person to realize his wrong doings and further helps him/her recognize what's good and what's bad. Good sacraments never fade, rather they grow beautifully with the time. If you can't teach ,then try to be a good role model. Kids are like earthen pitchers the way you pitch them ,the way you shape them at an early age ,they develop that attitude in their character in later years of their life. God has given you a great opportunity to shape a person with good morals so that he/she can be proved a good citizen .You cannot change the world but you can start with your kid who will be a citizen and a human of this planet one day.

In the following lines i have tried to shortlist the most common mistakes which parents do: 1. Keep fulfilling their children's demands without considering it in a proper way. 2. They keep on providing them unnecessary  facilities in order to make them feel richer than their friends. 3. Often they support them in their pity fights in school or neighborhood which directly or indirectly encourages them to repeat such acts. 4. Involve them in their lies ,betrays and fights. 5. Incorporate in them the feelings of superiority and inferiority complexes ,discrimination and differences. 6. Ignore their even crucial acts on grounds of them being "just a kid". 7. Doesn't give priority to teaching them right and wrong and morals or values and leave this task for later years.

Majority of parents continue to make these mistakes and in the future they are ashamed of holding themselves accountable if their child becomes uncontrollable and a spoiled person.

Things to be taught to the children at their early age: Morals Value of money and the things they demand for. Difference between Right and wrong. Make them familiar with reading and journaling habits. Art of politeness. Teaching them the idea of being an educated person with values rather than being literate with no morals. Should not fully rely on the school education system but also self-teach them and make them aware of the wrongdoings in the society with a clear picture. Encourage them to volunteer to fight and speak up against the wrong.

Being a parent, you are carrying the biggest risk and responsibility on your shoulders. Choose wisely the steps to shape your child in the right direction and If you fail to do your part then who will be a bigger sinner than you.

-Nirmal Rathore. Nirmal Rathore1921 (talk) 05:26, 28 February 2023 (UTC)