User talk:Officialemekaeze

WISDOM FOR DURABLE FRIENDSHIP
Do you desire to enjoy the friendship of different calibers of people?

- Do not approach people with the mindset of taking from them without you giving anything.

Don’t be a parasite, the moment people notice that you’re in their life for your personal gain, they will distance themselve from you immediately.

Most of the people who blocked you when you sent them a private message did it because, you were concerned of just your own needs. The truth is, everyone has a need, the wisdom is to find out what their needs are and give it to them and activate the relationship.

People will primarily embrace you when they notice the following; _ That you didn’t come with a selfish mindset _ That you’re not a threat to them in anyway _ That you’re not in competition with them _ That you genuinely care about them _ That you’re going to protect their reputation in your dealings _ When you do not take their friendship with you for granted _ when you love and respect them for who they are to you and what they are in the society.

If you can keep your word, show that you can be trusted, you have something worth more than silver and Gold in the society of today.

I de-complicated my life years ago, when I decided to choose the life I want to live. I structured it in such a way that I have control over my time, so if I give you my word that am coming to meet you at Abuja on a fixed date,I won’t come to tell you stories of why I couldn’t make it. When you do that, you have proven yourself to be unreliable, if you do it few times to different people, nobody will take you serious again.

Decide to be an asset to people and not a liability if you desire to be respected in your relationship with people.

You have to know the level of relationship you have with people before you ever pass your responsibilities to them, such as, asking them for money or any other personal needs.Don’t end your relationship with people expectedly because of your attitude.

Wisdom is profitable to direct the Bible says! Officialemekaeze (talk) 07:25, 14 August 2023 (UTC)