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Context Specific Therapy
I have added a "" template to the article Context Specific Therapy, suggesting that it be deleted according to the proposed deletion process. All contributions are appreciated, but I don't believe it satisfies Wikipedia's criteria for inclusion, and I've explained why in the deletion notice (see also "What Wikipedia is not" and Wikipedia's deletion policy). You may contest the proposed deletion by removing the  notice, but please explain why you disagree with the proposed deletion in your edit summary or on its talk page. Also, please consider improving the article to address the issues raised. Even though removing the deletion notice will prevent deletion through the proposed deletion process, the article may still be deleted if it matches any of the speedy deletion criteria or it can be sent to Articles for Deletion, where it may be deleted if consensus to delete is reached. Fireplace 23:41, 3 April 2007 (UTC)

Thank you
I just want to thank you for remaining civil during our discussions at Talk:Richard Cohen (lecturer) and elsewhere. I realize that we have differing views, but when people remain civil, as you have, it's much easier to find the balance. Thanks. Joie de Vivre 19:53, 13 April 2007 (UTC)

Park Street Church
Please see Talk:Park_Street_Church. --Fl e x (talk|contribs) 19:59, 30 April 2007 (UTC)

LDS Church & Sexuality
I must say I really like what you did to the homosexuality article of the LDS church. Very NPOV and lots of additional content.
 * Thanks!Joshuajohanson 23:02, 15 May 2007 (UTC)

Barnstar

 * Feel free to throw this wherever you want (i.e. main page) and remove this text.

May 2007
Please do not add commentary or your own personal analysis to Wikipedia articles, as you did to Homosexuality. Doing so violates Wikipedia's neutral point of view policy and breaches the formal tone expected in an encyclopedia. If you would like to experiment, use the sandbox. Thank you. Gwernol 23:39, 24 May 2007 (UTC)
 * I don't mean to be a pest, but I really was trying to represent Lisa Diamond's view the best I can. She did report that bisexual women report "significantly larger absolute changes in sexual attractions than lesbians."  Looking back at my edit, I think my wording of "significant change" might have been misinterpretated as a large change, rather than a measurable change, which is how Lisa Diamond used it.  I recognize my error and am satisfied with the way the article is written that she "measured changes in sexual attractions," since that is all that I meant by significant change.  Still, I don't think keeping the same language as Diamond used qualifies as "personal analysis" simply because I failed to disambiguate her probable meaning.Joshuajohanson 01:27, 30 May 2007 (UTC)
 * The edit I was objecting to was this one where you changed the quote from the APA from "is not changeable." to "is not a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed." This completely changed the meaning of the sentence and was clearly not supported by the cited source. Gwernol 01:37, 30 May 2007 (UTC)
 * Although the problem has been resolved, I disagree with Gwernol. The text you changed was a direct quote from the ref'd text, and although I prefer the current version, you were well within the bounds of good faith and decorous behavior in making the change you made. I hope that you will gently push back by pointing this out to Gwernol.LCP 01:51, 30 May 2007 (UTC)
 * LCP, please read the cited source, at . It states "Can Therapy Change Sexual Orientation? No. Even though most homosexuals live successful, happy lives, some homosexual or bisexual people may seek to change their sexual orientation through therapy, sometimes pressured by the influence of family members or religious groups to try and do so. The reality is that homosexuality is not an illness. It does not require treatment and is not changeable.". It is not acceptable to represent that statement with the text "is not a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.". This is the opposite of what the cited source says, and to pretend that the change was a direct quote from the source isn't correct. Gwernol 01:58, 30 May 2007 (UTC)


 * Gwernol, I do not know whether or not you will see this comment, but I did read the entire cited source. And as I tried to indicate and as Joshuajohanson points out below, the APA text actually does contain both statements. So firstly, it would be decorous for you to read sources more thoroughly before you censure other Wikipedians. Secondly, you may not agree with Joshuajohanson's take of the article, but because the article does contain both statements, he was within his rights to make the change. AND, since the second statement does not contradict the first, I don't think you can even say that he was playing fast and loose with the text. Were the text he used actually NOT in the APA article, then I think you might have had grounds to complain. But that was not the case. What was the case, in this instance, is that you and he had a legitimate interpretive disagreement and, without reading his source thoroughly, you warned him off. That is not conducive to a good Wikipedia. Thirdly, apart from the issue of the text, you seem to be imputing ideas to me that I have never stated and do not hold. I have never written anything to indicate that I think homosexuality is a mental disorder or to suggest that homosexuals try to change their sexual orientation, and so I do not appreciate the lecture.LCP 22:11, 30 May 2007 (UTC)


 * The exact text of cited source is as follows, with my quote and the original quote in italics:
 * Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?


 * No, human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.


 * Can Therapy Change Sexual Orientation?


 * No. Even though most homosexuals live successful, happy lives, some homosexual or bisexual people may seek to change their sexual orientation through therapy, sometimes pressured by the influence of family members or religious groups to try and do so. The reality is that homosexuality is not an illness. It does not require treatment and is not changeable.


 * It has both quotes in there. I thought my quote was more general, whereas the original quote seemed to apply only to treatments to change sexual orientation.  Right now the article has both quotes, which seems contradictory.  Maybe there is something I am not seeing, but I still think my interpretation is at least plausible. Anyway, I think this is more of a discussion for the homosexuality talk page than my talk page.Joshuajohanson 02:02, 30 May 2007 (UTC)

Gratuitous assertions
Joshuajohanson, I am sympathetic to what you trying to accomplish. I think that, as someone who has left the homosexual lifestyle, you have a very important perspective. I also think much of the content of the homosexual articles is slanted by those who fear or chaff against anti-homosexual bias, and that the current cultural climate is hyper-vigilant about “homophobia.” Because of this, one needs to be exceptionally rigorous in ensuring that everything one asserts is true AND solidly supported. I would encourage you to strive to be more objective in your arguments. When you assert a position without warrant, as you have done on your reading of the IDC’s F66, your destroy your credibility. If it turns out that you’ve misread something or inadvertently but forward a flawed argument, you’ll gain more credibility by immediately giving way than by tenaciously holding on to an evidently flawed position.LCP 17:41, 28 May 2007 (UTC)


 * I really don't understand what is going on then. I went to a regular doctor, who was licensed by the APA and received therapy to change my orientation.  Maybe I'm not reading everything right, but I know they allow it because I got it from them.  I have found nothing that shows they don't allow it.  What does it mean when the APA says it "affirms the following principles with regard to treatments to alter sexual orientation."  What does it mean when they print an article arguing against efforts to ban it if it weren't allowed in the first place?  If it is not allowed, how is it that places like http://www.healinghomosexuality.com offer professional counseling?  How is it that the ACA allows an article to be published that recommmends sending gays to religious organizations (mostly pro-gay, but includes ex-gay organizations like Courage International).


 * What treatment is it that the WHO says ego-dystonic homosexuals may seek? I dropped saying they supported it, and even dropped saying it was reparative therapy in the article, and suggested that they say they can seek treatment without specifying what that treatment was or what it was for.  How is saying patients may seek treatment different from saying they allow treatment?  Combat law says the ICD-10 "distinguishes between ego syntonic and ego dystonic homosexuality, and specifically mentions ego dystonic homosexuality, bisexuality and heterosexuality as psychiatric disorders."  After saying homosexuality was dropped as a disorder from the ICD-10, Dr. Martell said "related disorder “ego-dystonic sexual orientation” remains in the International Statistical Classification of Diseases."  The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission goes as far as to say "This diagnosis can allow families to commit young persons who are just “coming out” and experiencing guilt or uncertainty."  The Alternative Law Forum (a very pro-gay law organization) states the "ICD-10 clearly includes even ego dystonic heterosexuality as a disorder."  It futher states the ICD-10 "distinguishes between “ego syntonic” and “ego dystonic” homosexuality and categorises ego dystonic homosexuality, bisexuality and heterosexuality as psychiatric disorders. In ego dystonic homosexuality, bisexuality or homosexuality, the gender identity or sexual preference is not in doubt, but the individual wishes it were different and seeks treatment. In ego syntonic homosexuality, by contrast, the individual is comfortable with his or her sexual preference or gender identity. Psychiatric treatment to change the patient’s identity or sexual preference is warranted in the case of ego dystonic sexuality of any kind."


 * I am sorry, but I just don't even understand what anyone is talking about anymore. I would like to include these arguments in the talk, but I don't want to loose credibility.  I don't see how I am "evidently flawed" or how these assertions are gratuitous.  Can you enlighten me?Joshuajohanson 05:11, 29 May 2007 (UTC)


 * I am not sure how to respond. I do see your point and I sympathize. You must feel incredibly frustrated. As for my comment, it had to do only with what I personally saw regarding IDC F66. I think a big problem with the reparative therapy article is that it is so US centric. I noted this by the adding the disclaimer that currently sits at the top of the article. Perhaps you can start a thread pointing this out. OR, even better, perhaps you can craft a section titled something like, “International Views of Reparative Therapy.” You should first publish it on the Talk page and ask for input. If you have some solidly referenced statements, you should be able to get the section to stick. Also, I do hope that you will follow up on the Kinsey Institute. As I mentioned in a previous post, I believe that they hold a published theory of sexuality according to which sexuality and sexual orientation is much more fluid than the current APA view. Finally, check out Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, DSM and Politics. Although the section would not be directly useful, I think you’ll find the information encouraging. Although the APA is a powerful and important organization, it is not the only authority in the world and it is not above politics. Best of luck. Please feel free to email me directly if you want some pre-publication feedback.LCP 01:42, 30 May 2007 (UTC)


 * Joshuajohanson, I hope that you will continue to strive to not take it personally. Please try to remember, Wikipedia is not important in the big scheme of things. For the most part, it is just a great place to find information about things like French fries. Some of the non-controversial scientific content is suppose to be reliable too . Regarding the controversial topics, if you look at any of their Talk pages, you quickly get an idea of how partisan and ridiculous the articles tend to be. In other words, “it is a mean game for low stakes.” This might sound terrible, but to some extent, we Wikipedians are a bunch of losers, people who, for whatever reason, probably haven’t found a voice in more stable, reputable, or academic publications. I think the satire at the Onion sums up Wikipedia beautifully. It is quite fun: . Regarding being a terrible person, I hope that you will remember that our ultimate value comes only from God’s love for us, and that He does not evaluate things the way we evaluate things . For example, men cling to pride, and the world loves and rewards it when it is coupled with cunning . However, pride is among the greatest of abominations to God . In contrast, the thing with which you were afflicted is usually the result of run of the mill human weakness. And while people single out homosexuality as if it is something exceptional, in the divine scheme of things, it is probably not much different from heterosexual desire. This, I think, is why the Catholic Church refuses to call homosexuality a “mental disorder” and instead calls it an “objective disorder” . Regardless of whether one has heterosexually or homosexually oriented sexuality, the Church exhorts us all to the type of chastity that is suited to our vocation. The Church states,
 * “The chaste person maintains the integrity of the powers of life and love placed in him. This integrity ensures the unity of the person; it is opposed to any behavior that would impair it. It tolerates neither a double life nor duplicity in speech. Chastity includes an apprenticeship in self-mastery which is a training in human freedom. The alternative is clear: either man governs his passions and finds peace, or he lets himself be dominated by them and becomes unhappy. Man's dignity therefore requires him to act out of conscious and free choice, as moved and drawn in a personal way from within, and not by blind impulses in himself or by mere external constraint. Man gains such dignity when, ridding himself of all slavery to the passions, he presses forward to his goal by freely choosing what is good and, by his diligence and skill, effectively secures for himself the means suited to this end”.
 * One of the ideas I love best comes from this text: “either man governs his passions and finds peace, or he lets himself be dominated by them and becomes unhappy.” Finally, remember that you ultimately can’t do anything by yourself, for like everyone else, you are merely dust . I exhort you to offer your sufferings to Lord and to put yourself entirely in his hands through the Blessed Mother .LCP 17:20, 31 May 2007 (UTC)
 * Thanks for the note! I am trying to validate my email, and then I'll send you a note. This might not be until Monday.LCP 15:34, 1 June 2007 (UTC)

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Section on Mormonism in "Religion and Homosexuality"
I thought that you might want to add to the comments on Homosexuality and Mormonism; specifically, that Morman's believe that it is curable.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_and_homosexuality#ChristianityLCP 19:53, 4 September 2007 (UTC)

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AfD nomination of People Can Change
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Price of weekends makes it look like a plug.
You might want to consider taking that info out.LCP 21:26, 3 October 2007 (UTC)
 * lol. Fireplace was the one who put in the price of the weekends, I think to emphasize how expensive it is, to back up his theory that everyone is in it for the money.  I just added the UK price to emphasize that it is international.Joshuajohanson 21:30, 3 October 2007 (UTC)
 * What was it, $600? That actually doesn't sound to bad if they can deliver what they promise.LCP 23:44, 3 October 2007 (UTC)

Exodus International help
As a Christian interested in the relationship between religion and homosexuality, thanks for your work here. Perhaps you've noticed that the Exodus article is direly unbalanced. I've tried on three separate occasions to work on it, but as someone who hates the organization, I couldn't bring myself to do it. I hope someone can. --Ephilei 22:44, 5 November 2007 (UTC)

Mail
Hi Josh. You got mailDocleaf 17:35, 3 December 2007 (UTC)

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New article
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Focus on the Family Category Removal
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Study at UW
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Simon LeVay
You might want to take a look at the article on Simon LeVay. Your recent edit there perhaps hasn't come out quite right. Skoojal (talk) 20:42, 11 April 2008 (UTC)
 * Thanks! I don't know what happened.Joshuajohanson (talk) 05:18, 12 April 2008 (UTC)

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May 2008
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Thank you
Mr. Johanson:

Thank you for catching and correcting the inaccuracies on the Alan Chambers page.

Mojomama (talk) 20:47, 9 June 2008 (UTC)

Conversion therapy/reparative therapy dispute
Hello Joshuajohanson. As you may know, Whistling42 (who was previously 66.30.20.71) has been going through articles about ex-gay subjects and changing "reparative therapy" to "conversion therapy." In some cases, such as the article on Exodus International, this misrepresents the sources that the article is based upon, which talk about "reparative therapy", not "conversion therapy." I tried to solve this problem by using a direct quote from Exodus; Knulclunk agreed that this was the right thing to do, but Whistling42 removed the quote and reintroduced the misleading reference to "conversion therapy." Please take an interest in this matter and help end the dispute. Skoojal (talk) 00:16, 28 June 2008 (UTC)

July 2008
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Maybe you guys should ask for a RfC on the content changes --Nsaum75 (talk) 01:01, 8 July 2008 (UTC)


 * Awesome, let's waste energy on a big fake argument.


 * Josh is an experienced editor. He knows perfectly well what the issues are with his edit, and he also knows that when new content is disputed, normal practice is to work it out on the talk page rather than simply re-add it to the article.


 * Dybryd (talk) 01:08, 8 July 2008 (UTC)


 * I have started a talk page to discuss this. I do not know what the issues are with my edits. Joshuajohanson (talk) 01:17, 8 July 2008 (UTC)


 * I left the same notice on Dybryd's talkpage. Over the past 24 hours I have watched both sides revert edits several times, either via the "Revert" function or basically cut/paste out sections the other has added. Since both sides seem to strongly disagree over the added/removed content, then it should be discussed in the TALK. And thanks for reverting your prior edit regarding "watching my page" or "are you in on this together" which could have been construed as a personal attack. --Nsaum75 (talk) 01:22, 8 July 2008 (UTC)

Map Changes
Joshua,

The map of the world with the Illegal/Legal information was correct before you changed it. Note the original file on the Wikipedia Commons.

Under the Section that said "Homosexuality Legal" and listed subheadings of "Same-sex marriage" etc..etc... the subheadings, albeit a a bit misleading, were to show areas in which it was not only legal to be homosexual but various stages of "acceptance" among the country (ie: some accept homosexuals to the extent where they are given equal rights of marriage).

Your changes showed that same-sex marriage in, for instance, Saudi Arabia is punishable by death. In actuality, the institute of "same-sex marriage" does not even exist in Saudi Arabia, so how can one be put to death for it? Rather, the map is showing that by BEING homosexual you are put to death. Just as in many countries being discovered to be homosexual can result in prison time.

Just a thought...the map needs to be re-worded, but as it stands now, the "new titling" of "same-sex marriage legal" and "same sex marriage illegal" is incorrect. --Nsaum75 (talk) 19:14, 9 July 2008 (UTC)

Sexual Identity Therapy
Joshuajohanson, on the conversion therapy talk page you asked me, "Skoojal, if sexual identity therapy isn't a type of conversion therapy, what is it? I thought it just wasn't a type of reparative therapy." I am replying here because I am not sure that your question is on topic for the page. Conversion therapy is usually understood as an attempt to cure homosexuals and turn them heterosexual. Sexual identity therapy doesn't attempt that, rather, following the wording of the article on the subject, it tries to "aid [mental health] practitioners in helping [lesbian, gay, and bisexual] people arrive at a healthy and personally acceptable resolution of sexual identity and value conflicts." Throckmorton seems pretty clear that sexual identity therapy isn't conversion therapy. Skoojal (talk) 08:56, 22 July 2008 (UTC)
 * So what is it? Joshuajohanson (talk) 09:54, 22 July 2008 (UTC)
 * Unless this is going to become an issue of crucial significance, I'm not sure I should continue discussing it. Skoojal (talk) 02:48, 23 July 2008 (UTC)

Food for zombies
Don't take this as uncivil, but quite honestly, many of your edits make my head want to split apart. But so do Ann Aldrich's books. Where Ann Aldrich had a mission to challenge lesbian identity, yours seems to promote a life of accepting your desires by refusing to act on them to as many articles as possible. I recognize that if I am passionate enough to think that your good faith and completely sourced edits make me think I have tumors growing in my brain, I should not engage in article talk page discussions with you because it is too close to what I have gone through. Civility demands I be detached. Discussing these issues away from an article intelligently, however, I think would be interesting. Providing my head doesn't explode and feed the zombies. --Moni3 (talk) 00:03, 29 July 2008 (UTC)


 * My view of the world consists of having my head split apart and thrown back together with crazy glue so many times there is very little semblance to my narrow-minded upbringing. I learned long ago that the world does not fit into nice little compartments like we would all like to believe.  As much as we like to believe that we have gotten away from the Leave it to Beaver family where everyone knows what is right and wrong and thinks alike, the truth of the matter is I feel we are starting to revert to the "everyone must think like this" mentality.  I know way too many people who feel alone and isolated because "they must be the only ones like this", because they don't fit in this box that the world tells them they need to be in.  Both extremes in the culture war like to paint a picture of the world where they are right and everyone who disagrees with them is crazy.


 * I think my background gives me a unique perspective. I grew up in Las Vegas, which has a very "anything goes" attitude.  I thought it was very liberal.  I then moved to the San Francisco bay area and encountered true liberalism.  I was surprised at how close-minded they were compared to the Nevadans.  Anyone who held a view other than the prevailing liberal attitude was looked down upon as backwards and confused.  My world went from anything goes to my way or the highway.  Talking with several of these people, I realized many had encountered close-minded conservatives, who also had a my way or the highway attitude.  In their rebellion against these narrow-minded attitudes, I think they failed to realize their own narrow-mindedness.


 * You cannot compartmentalize people into little boxes. It doesn't work.  Doing so alienates them.  Especially in a field like sexuality, the experience of actual people varies wildly.  By only documenting the 100% true gay through and through, you belittle the silent majority of gays who are not out and about. Joshuajohanson (talk) 00:33, 29 July 2008 (UTC)

Problem with edit to Homosexuality
Given the flurry of activity at Talk:Homosexuality, you may easily miss my post there. In this diff, there is a dangling &lt;/ref&gt; tag. I'm not sure whether the whole reference was supposed to be included in the edit, or whether indeed this material was even put into the proper section. Anyway, I thought I should let you know directly so that you can fix the problem, whatever it may be. Cheers, siℓℓy rabbit  (  talk  ) 16:59, 12 August 2008 (UTC)

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Cultural Mormon
In case you do not have this article on your watchlist, you may want to review the most recent edit. You may have additional information or perspectives on the topic. Thanks, Alanraywiki (talk) 18:12, 10 September 2008 (UTC)
 * Thanks! I do indeed. Joshuajohanson (talk) 21:53, 10 September 2008 (UTC)

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Skoojal/Devil Goddess
User:Skoojal, with whom you interacted on some article a few months ago, created a sock to evade a block, user:Devil Goddess. That account has been working overtime editing, in some cases doing major overhauls of articles. You seem to be more aware of these topics than I am - would it be possible for you to review DG's edits to make sure they haven't caused problems? ·:· Will Beback ·:· 00:25, 25 November 2008 (UTC)

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 * Please note that you have made three reverts in the space of a few hours. Rather than reporting this, as a gesture of good faith, I am advising you of this. Mish (talk) 22:23, 7 August 2009 (UTC)
 * I would like to ask Joshuajohanson to discuss the disagreements about the article on its talk page. It has been protected so that a discussion can take place, but there has been no proper discussion so far. Born Gay (talk) 22:07, 10 August 2009 (UTC)

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You was there very battlesome. Positions: "We believe that clients have the right to claim a gay identity, or to diminish their homosexuality and to develop their heterosexual potential." And Nicolosi in Reparative therapy of male homosexuality: „I do not believe that the gay life-style can ever be healthy, nor that the homosexual identity can ever be completly ego-syntonic.“ By oneself the term "gay lifestyle", "homosexual lifestyle". It seams that a man must go every weekend in a Disco and must cruise another man to be gay. And that there is only one "gay". It seems that gays can not change the behavior. But, they had done it in foretime, when they are more free. i.e. The much effiminate in the clubs goes away after around 1969. Then was hypermasculinity as other pendular movement. And now it is more in the middle. And about given scripts: I learned before my CO (1989), that partnership is only with women and with man there is only sex. I Learned this from the society and from my first no-gay-compagnions (same age). And gays are only old man who lust after young boys. After the CO, i had to rebuild and diverse my view of the gay world.

"There have been groups and there are still groups that try to force gay people to undergo unwanted therapy." For me NARTH and the others will force gay people to undergo wanted therapy. Because the one and only "gay lifestyle" is so bad. On their website, they cited many statistics, about how much psychic pathology gay people have. And only this. They will only show how much pathology gay mens have. There are no deeper views what are the relevant factors for this, from where come this, etc. (I had by i.e. an Austrian Study about suicidal in gay population. And there it states: This factor is so significant, and this so.. etc.) And they stated in their press release to the "new study" also: "The possibility of dissatisfaction also seems insignificant when compared to the substantial medical, emotional, and physical risks associated with homosexual behavior." And also Throckmorton write: ''"The NARTH report spends lots of time reporting on greater levels of mental health and health problems among homosexuals as compared to heterosexuals. [...] Joseph Nicolosi says that the only way you get SSA is to traumatize a child. The reparative impulse to find trauma behind every gay person is misguided I believe, conceptually and for sure empirically. Women have greater levels of mental health problems than men but we would not consider women inherently disordered. [...] And where do they want to go? [...] According to NARTH, gays ought to seek reorientation therapy because being gay is a risky life, full of health and mental health disadvantages. Their hypothesis is implied but hard to miss: reduce the SSA and reduce the health risks. The assumption appears to be that ex-gays will have better health outcomes than gays. One problem with this line of thinking is that there is no empirical evidence for it and some evidence against it. For instance, it is not possible to say that the modest shifts on the Kinsey scale were responsible for the shifts in health status. These folks were quite religious and religion is associated with enhanced health status. I suspect religious gays have a better health status than non-religious gays, on average. The point is we do not have evidence that sexual orientation status per se is what leads to the differences in health status. While I am on the subject of health status, I need to mention that there are other factors which NARTH ignored. One, gender non-conformity is strongly correlated with adult homosexuality and is also associated with poorer mental health. Two, homosexuals report higher levels of sexual victimization which is also associated with higher levels of mental health problems. And, three, no one can discount the possibility biological factors which associate with the development of homosexuality that may also influence the development of emotional problems (i.e., in the same way women are more likely to report depression than men)."''

And i have now also read that Pentecostalism people have doubled depression than average Christians and Amish had tree times more derpressen than average people. And medical doctors have also more depression. And so on.

And there is a another staement from Nicolosi about the 1/3-sucess. He say 1/3 ist not motivated, because they go there for her wifes, her parents, etc. He make therapy for people who are more or less dragged to him. 

And NARTH spread the Message: Change is possible. You have a cohoice. etc. And very vew times, they clarify was change means. Mostly no change of attraction, of the orientation itself. More dismiss homosexual components than become more heterosexual. But the world hear only the first. Homosexuals can change. And they think that there is a full transition from homosexual to heterosexual. And then no rights and force. (Like a protestantic school in US, who said: Go to therapy or leave. Or what i read in an austrian catholic Forum: I have heard homosexuals can change.)

And compersion with alcoholics is bad, because no later alcoholic (standard population, not bad influence) wish with 13, when he had not drinked a portion of alcohol, a "partnership" with his alcohol.

Also when i see, that they cited the Amsterdam-Study of Maria Xiridou from a clinic for STD for "the homosexual partnership". (this is a quick lacmus-test for me). This study was in christian news reports and have the lowest partnership-duration ever in a study. This is why so many use it. But it can not be taken to show duration of partnership of "the homosexuals". And the Netherlands are good, but they are not the "holy land" with no failing. That show also a school study from 1993 or 1994 from Drs. A. Kersten and Dr. Th. G. M. Sandfort. And they have also metropolitan and rural and gay migration. Bad inputs in the childhood don't all dismiss when someone goes in the liberal city. In Suisse this is also played with Geneve, which is liberal, but the gay scene is interesting for the whole french suisse and also for france.
 * Richard Fitzgibbons: Gay Teens: Studies On Emotional/Relational Health, NARTH.com, 31. Oktober 2005
 * MARANATHA COMMUNITY: STATEMENT ON "GAY AFFIRMATIVE THERAPY" - 3. Homosexual lifestyle and promiscuity, NARTH.com, 23. Juli 2007
 * Dean Byrd: Gender Complementarity and Child-rearing: Where Tradition and Science Agree, NARTH.com, 24. Mai 2005 A more recent study published in the journal AIDS (2003) ...

And for this actions and vews they are for me anti-homosexual, and yeah they reach a border, after that i will call them homophobic. They will only show how bad SSA is and push the people to change. --Franz (Fg68at) de:Talk 15:43, 14 August 2009 (UTC)

Norway paper
Hi, do you have access to this paper? , if so, could you copy and paste me the conclusion. Thanks. Mish (talk) 01:01, 28 August 2009 (UTC)

Conversion therapy
Johanson - could you continue to be involved in the conversion therapy debate? Your views have been helpful. Hyper3 (talk) 16:04, 1 September 2009 (UTC)

Hints for Sexual Identity
(Via Decade-Search in Google Books.) --Franz (Fg68at) de:Talk 04:02, 9 September 2009 (UTC)
 * Second Half 19th century, mostly for human, also sometimes for animals and plants. Sometimes it seams that it comes from SEXual identity = biological gender identity. i.e. Sexual identity of Embryos.
 * The use grows in the 1940s. Mostly Problems in sexual identity, confusing. Sexual identity as man or women. Near Transvestism/Transsexual (no really own theme to this time) and Homosexual. But to this time also vs. fetish. First time sexual identity of Adam and Eve when they saw them. It gwos in the theme of Child development, Adolescent Development. With 5 Years Gender identity, Adolescent: Sexual Identity
 * 1948-1953 Robert J. Havighurst, Theory of "developmental tasks", development of identity. One task for adolsecents is to form sexual identity

Reply from talk:conversion therapy
Joshuajohanson, I reply to your comments from talk:conversion therapy here again because I am continuing to find placing comments on the talk page difficult.

You asked, "Are you saying we shouldn't have a page for all efforts to change sexual orientation because there is too much material?" Yes, among other reasons. The existence of such massive amounts of material on this topic makes the task of organizing and presenting it all much too difficult, and the fact that there are no sources that deal comprehensively with all the different change methods means that it would be impossible to keep an article about them NPOV (that's difficult enough with conversion therapy, even though it is a narrower subject).

Regarding your comment, "Personally, it just sounds like you don't want reliable, referenced material on Wikipedia at all, whether under this article or under another article": it may not be your intention to make personal attacks, but that comment, nevertheless, borders on being a personal attack. My objections to your suggestion have nothing to do with some sinister wish on my part to censor Wikipedia. I cannot stop you from working on a single huge article that tries to discuss all change methods, and I would not dream of trying; it's just that I consider the task all but hopeless. I probably wouldn't have any interest in working on it myself. BG 22:57, 15 September 2009 (UTC)


 * I guess I misinterpreted your comments. I guess I interpreted your fear of becoming NOR and being unmanageable was an attempt to stop us from working on a single article that discusses all change methods, not simply a disinterest in working on it yourself. From my point of view, it seemed you did not want info on SOCE to be discussed either here or anywhere else. If that is the case, I would appreciate if you made that clear on the talk page.  From what you wrote, it seems like you are trying to stop us from writing that article.  BTW, I don't want it to be huge.  I am imagining it to be more of a summary style article, with links to the different attempts, but I obviously can't promise anything since I will not be the only editor to work on that page. Joshuajohanson (talk) 23:32, 15 September 2009 (UTC)
 * The talk page is bloated, and I find it difficult to comment there; I have nearly given up. I will be commenting on individual users' talk pages until that situation is fixed. I'm not trying to stop you from writing any article, just pointing out that it's not sensible to try to write the article you have in mind. BG 00:45, 16 September 2009 (UTC)

There are other issues that need considering too - the quotation from NARTH in the lead, for instance. My position is still that it should be removed. What are your views on this? BG 23:03, 15 September 2009 (UTC)


 * NARTH does advocate conversion therapy, but it also offers other types of therapy as well. The comment "providing psychological care to those distressed by unwanted homosexual attractions" isn't even necessarily about conversion therapy. Both the APA and NARTH believe those distressed by unwanted homosexual attractions should be provided with psychological care, just the APA doesn't think conversion therapy is the way to do it.  That does not come through on this article.  This is one of the reasons I think a separate article would be wise.  I do not particularly even agree with conversion therapy.  I am a much bigger fan of sexual identity therapy.  However, I think it should be clear what the APA says and what NARTH says about conversion therapy.  I do not think this article currently does that.  I think the edit by Hyper is misguided, but I appreciate him trying to accurately represent NARTH's views. I will bring up my concerns about the NARTH quote on the talk page or if you make clear that you are not trying to stop us from creating an article for SOCE. Joshuajohanson (talk) 23:32, 15 September 2009 (UTC)

Sexual orientation change efforts
Joshuajohanson, I would strongly suggest that you move what you are doing here to your user space. Working on your own version of an article is appropriate within user space, but I'm not sure how it is appropriate to be doing that within a talk page; I'm considering nominating the page you creation for deletion. BG 21:20, 16 September 2009 (UTC)
 * I didn't want to use my own user space because I wanted input from other people. I was following the advice given at Workpages. Joshuajohanson (talk) 00:36, 17 September 2009 (UTC)
 * What that page says is that, 'A "sandbox" or "dumping ground" page associated with a specific article is useful in cases where an article is already reasonably developed (say, better than "Start") and as such can suffer deterioration by addition of sub-standard material.' That's clearly not the case here. Sexual orientation change efforts is not reasonably developed; it's only a redirect. Having something within your user space doesn't prevent people from commenting on it; I welcome comment on material within my user space, for instance. BG 01:40, 17 September 2009 (UTC)
 * I think working on this page is the way forward. Thanks for getting it started.Hyper3 (talk) 15:46, 17 September 2009 (UTC)
 * I disagree; I think there are numerous problems with that page. For instance, it states that "Coaches work like psychologists, but are not licensed and hence do not have to follow ethical guidelines set by professional associations, giving them more room to experiment." That was material that was in older versions of the conversion therapy article, but it was removed, because it was inaccurate. It's not good to see the same misleading content surfacing at another page. BG 03:53, 18 September 2009 (UTC)
 * I would like to work together to improve this article. If you have any more suggestions I would be more than glad to incorporate them. The page is still a workpage and can use a lot of improvement. Joshuajohanson (talk) 15:00, 18 September 2009 (UTC)
 * Frankly, that article looks to me like it is simply a holding-place for all the content that is too poorly sourced and insufficiently relevant to be part of Conversion therapy. Lots of leftovers from conversion therapy aren't really going to make a good article. However, I will look it over carefully, and make a list of suggestions. I probably won't edit it myself. BG 05:27, 19 September 2009 (UTC)

Conversion Therapy
Joshuajohanson, basically, yes I think the information should be there, but carefully worded so that it doesn't appear that it's the ONLY or BEST option. Does that make sense?--Boweneer (talk) 22:08, 24 September 2009 (UTC)
 * I totally agree with that. What do you think of the information presented on Talk:Sexual_orientation_change_efforts/Dumping_Ground?  I have tried to be neutral. Joshuajohanson (talk) 22:16, 24 September 2009 (UTC)
 * Joshuajohanson, I suggest that you add yourself to the list of parties involved in the dispute at conversion therapy here . You are clearly involved in the dispute, and discussion is not likely to achieve anything unless you participate. BG talk 00:01, 28 September 2009 (UTC)
 * Joshuajohanson, sorry I never checked back here at your page re: the SOCE sub page of yours. I will look. As far as nonreligious *people* pursuing this, I'm sure there are some sources that say that, but I would imagine they are partisan. Just my opinion, and I think that there could be an effort there to make conversion therapy look "legitimate". As someone who is far off the beaten path, being "legitimate" doesn't concern me too much--personally, if sources discuss this as working for religious men, and some studies show promising results for religious men, great. I think an encylopedic article should note that, while noting that the majority opinion is that it is healthier for most LGBT people to change their religion rather than their sexuality. Again, put huge POV markers around everything I've said.


 * Oh, though I'm participating in this conversation on talk pages, etc., I don't really want to edit the articles themselves. I prefer editing less controversial stuff. ;0 --Boweneer (talk) 23:53, 30 September 2009 (UTC)


 * Joshuajohanson, Interesting article. Thanks for the link. However, I notice a few things in David's story that are warning flags to me as a gay man. Number one, an implicit assumption that there is a *gay lifestyle*. I can tell you that just like being a straight man in the U.S., being a gay man in the U.S. doesn't automatically lump everyone into one culture. In any case, I do think that a man such as this would be a tiny minority, because I think it is more common for a gay man to realize that the club culture and promiscuity are unhealthy. There are plenty of other lifestyle options.


 * However, I think this is an excellent source for either article (SOCE or conversion therapy), especially since I think reliable sources are scanty anyway. It's written in a fairly neutral style, and I like that. David has a good point in pointing out that pursuing this kind of therapy is a highly personal decision, and he is brave enough to confront not only the club culture and promiscuity, but admit that his reasons are his own, based on his opinions about how a child should be raised.--Boweneer (talk) 19:22, 1 October 2009 (UTC)


 * If you don't mind me asking Joshua, where did you go to overcome homosexuality? You obviously don't have to answer, I'm just curious -- Historyguy1965 (talk) 03:17, 31 October 2009 (UTC)


 * I don't know if "overcome homosexuality" is the best way to put it, but it was through Christ that I have found peace. Joshuajohanson (talk) 16:41, 2 November 2009 (UTC)

Sexual maturation disorder
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Sockpuppet?
Well now I've started with a sockpuppet case. I think I have uncovered evidence for Born Gay being the banned user Skoojal. Perhaps I am wrong, but if you look back you will see a very similar pattern of editing and commenting. Sigh. Hope I'm right, or I'll have to do a lot of apologising. See this and this and this.Hyper3 (talk) 18:41, 12 October 2009 (UTC)


 * That is bold. I would need to look more into it before I form my opinion.  I have found some other similar edits on the Homosexuality and Psychology page.  Born Gay seemed to pick up right where Skoojal left off
 * Skoojal: "pathological models were in fact standard throughout most of the 20th century, not just the early part"
 * Born Gay: "Actually pathological models were standard until very late in the 20th century (1973?), so it's quite wrong to suggest that they were restricted to only the early part of the 20th century."
 * He has confessed. Hyper3 (talk) 20:38, 12 October 2009 (UTC)

Rather be gay than dumb any day
Joshua,

If you look at the revision history of your user page, you'll notice some vandalism. I added that using a couple of my other sockpuppets. Let me explain why: I don't doubt your claims of having overcome homosexuality and developed heterosexual feelings, but I also don't consider that much of an accomplishment. To be bragging about that is therefore rather laughable, in my view. There are more important things to care about, such as intelligence. Normally, I would consider myself above a cheap taunt such as calling Mormons morons, but in your case, I think that fits well enough.

You may have overcome your homosexuality, but you aren't going to overcome stupidity. Personally, even if being gay is a mental illness (an issue I am content to leave open; I take no position either way), I would rather be gay than plain stupid, which is what you are.

Your pal,

Skoojal —Preceding unsigned comment added by Avalon57 (talk • contribs) 02:16, 13 October 2009 (UTC)

image of missionaries
Hi Joshuajohanson, the image File:MormonMissionaries.jpg that you have uploaded from Flickr 2 years ago, is threatened by deletion because the license couldn't be verified as it is no longer visible on Flickr. In case you know or are in contact with the photographer, could you ask her/him for written permission, as explained here? --Túrelio (talk) 08:01, 15 October 2009 (UTC)
 * It might be wise to leave a note at the image or at my talkpage about whether you will or will not contact the photographer. Remember, it is under speedy deletion. --Túrelio (talk) 20:47, 16 October 2009 (UTC)

On the SSM article reply and etc.
Hey Joshua, I first want to thank you for your ideas and help.

I want you to take a look at my newer revisions (only the first couple actual edits will be posted) and tell me if you think my edits/ arguments still have the same problems:

"Perhaps all the info on both sides, in the cases I mention, belong in a new section or article. Let me know your thoughts.

Unless my information can be shown to be irrelevant enough to not even justify being in a section of the article on why some oppose SSM on scientific and philosophical grounds (I say philosophical because the idea that laws of the state must be found to be a net gain to the society is based on political philosophy); then the solutions I see are to include them side by side with equally relevant information already in the article, delete that equally relevant information, or place both in new sections on opposition and favor of SSM.

I will briefly review some things learned in the section on my previous edits (if you have disagreements with parts of my review please just say here “I disagree with-- statement” but put your reasoning in the old section, that this one may remain fresh.


 * The way I have posted these edits is not the exact way I would have them appear on the wiki page- for example- the “based on the logic of others” and “based on my logic” sections, and the brief descriptions of why I included the edit, would not be in the actual article.

We have determined from the past debate that one of my sources was outdated and that I made a generalization about another- I have left out such things in my revision. Since I have been willing to admit when I was wrong, another has mistaken my honesty for stupidity; I hope such mistakes can be avoided in this fresh discussion so that no one need fear honesty in debate.

We have determined that the burden of proof rests upon me to support my statements. This is done by providing scientific sources that cannot be proven flawed in a way that jeopardizes how it is placed in the article (and we have covered that the burden of proof cannot rest upon me to prove that the study is perfect- as that is impossible for any one to do with any study or scientific evidence (ie. Newtonian physics- although proved by mathematic proof- have been overridden by Relativity- and that in part by Quantum.)  My sources also must not be able to be objectively shown (not by opinion) to violate policies of authoritativeness. On questions of validity the burden of proof is passed when I fulfill the requirement of posting an authoritative source.

On questions of relevancy- Historyguy linked the article on logical fallacy of burden of proof- the conclusion of which reads: “The logical fallacy  which she is exposing in this case is the attempt to argue that view A is to be preferred to view B because "B cannot be proven" when the burden of proof is laid on view B to an impossibly heavy level, and in particular to a level under which A could not be proven either. Keith Lehrer suggests that "generally arguments about where the burden of proof lies are unproductive. It is more reasonable to suppose that such questions are best left to courts of law where they have suitable application. In philosophy a different principle of agnoiology [the study of ignorance] is appropriate, to wit, that no hypothesis should be rejected as unjustified without argument against it. Consequently, if the sceptic puts forth a hypothesis inconsistent with the hypothesis of common sense, then there is no burden of proof on either side …"

We have also shown, by wikipedia policy, that if the portions already in the article are deleted, the burden of proof rests on those who wish it restored.

We have shown that because I do not have all knowledge, nor claimed to have such, one flaw in one study (if the claim to flaw cannot be shown itself to be false) still does not discredit my other information. I have done “my homework” on these articles all over again. If there were flaws in the studies or my statements about them I would love to address them on a case by case basis.

The exact wording, in order to present it in the most fair way, is open to discussion.
 * Here are my edits and the places in the article they belong near, and explanations of the edits.

A study on marriage statistics of opposite-sex married couples by researcher 1. Darren Spedale found that 15 years after Denmark had granted same-sex couples marriage-like partnership status, rates of opposite-sex marriage in those countries had gone up, and rates of opposite-sex divorce had gone down, contradicting the concept that same-sex marriages would have a negative effect on traditional marriages.[117]

Based on the logic of others- this should be removed as it applies to same-sex civil unions not same sex marriage (except in that the baseless opinion is added that the same results could be found if same-sex marriages had existed for the last 15 years in Denmark).

Based on my logic this should be amended to remove that opinion.

However, a study on same-sex partnerships in Norway and Sweden found that short-term divorce risks are higher (50% for gay men and double the risk for lesbian couples as it was for gay male couples) in same-sex partnerships than in opposite-sex marriages.[118] The authors stated that this may be due to same-sex couples' "non-involvement in joint parenthood" and "lower exposure to normative pressure about the necessity of life-long unions."[118]

This clarifies what the study found.

A multi-method, multi-informant comparison of community samples of committed gay male and lesbian (30 participants each) couples with both committed (50 young engaged and 40 older married participants) and non-committed (109 exclusively dating) opposite-sex pairs was conducted in 2008.[119] Results indicated that individuals in committed same-sex relationships were generally not distinguishable from their committed opposite-sex counterparts.

Based on the logic of others- this should be removed because it was not conducted on same-sex married couples and that it does not apply to same-sex marriages.

Based on my logic it should remain and other information and studies on the differences in same-sex couple relationships should be added. Such as: (but worded differently so it fits better in the article) A study found that the mean number of partners among males rose from 15 to 18 per year, though the median fell from 6 to 5 indicating that this is due to increased proportions of men reporting high or very high partner numbers.

Davies P et al. Putting it about: health promotion for gay men with higher numbers of sexual partners. CHAPS Partnership and Sigma Research, London, 2002.

This shows a possible difference between same-sex and opposite sex relationships. (This last sentence was an explanation of why this edit belongs and would not appear in the article) (I would include a source on the numbers for opposite sex relationships- but then I would be accused of synthesis instead of the fairness I was trying to portray.)"

Now that I have probably lost other prying eyes- I want to get to that etc. I think it is very awesome that you are a 'recovered' homosexual. If I got the right impression from your other comments on this page- you are LDS yes? So am I :)  My thoughts on homosexuality as a disorder may be helpful in modifying how you explain your thoughts on it to others:  I believe that everyone has the genetic ability to be attracted to either man or woman.  This ability varies in degree from person to person. (I first came to this conclusion from listening to a radio debate- where, by the logic of the professor opposing therapy for some homosexuals, this conclusion could be easily derived.)   Some call it a disorder when a man is perhaps 80% leaning toward sexual attraction with another man because it goes against evolution and natural selection as probably all disorders do because they decrease the ability to propagate the race.  Others see it as an addiction, where- just like porn addiction (from which I have recovered) an outside influence drives that increased desire toward the same sex by means of chemical persuasion. An addict is more open to this because of genetics. It should also be noted that science has shown behavior to be able to cause gene modification.

I forget if there is anything else I wanted to say...oh yes... I hope you will continue the good fight on wikipedia to have both views recognized on SSM. You have been better able to express yourself objectively than I have. I am limited to a short amount of time before I will not be able to further pursue this topic for 2 years- so please help me to expedite the edits ;) (MatLocke (talk) 00:09, 31 October 2009 (UTC))


 * Much of what you are trying to edit can be found on Same-sex marriage and the family. I think the section on Divorce rates should be expanded to include general stability issues.  You could also work on trying to get general information about same-sex relationships onto the article about same-sex relationships.  Benjiboi is currently trying to remove all negative information about same-sex relationships from that article.  I think information about the average number of sex partners would be good there, and you don't need to prove that it is related to SSM.  The problem with "the mean number of partners among males rose from 15 to 18 per year" is the population.  Where were these men taken from?  If they were from AIDS clinics, then they probably have a higher likelihood of participating in risky sexual behaviors, thus skewing the results.  The articles I sent you were general statements about the general population of men who pursue same-sex relationships.  Thanks for the compliment.  I am a bit hesitant about posting my story on wikipedia.  I think I have been a bit too open in the past and now I regret it.  Not everything that other people have said about me is true, but I have chosen not to correct them.  I am LDS.  I think that is great that you are too.  I would be careful about what you say the causes of homosexuality are.  Larry King once asked President Hinckley whether or not people were born gay.  President Hinckley said he did not know. Elder Oaks said "The Church does not have a position on the causes of any of these susceptibilities or inclinations, including those related to same-gender attraction. Those are scientific questions - whether nature or nurture - those are things the Church doesn’t have a position on. Similarly, Elder Holland said "I too affirm that God loves all His children and acknowledge that many questions, including some related to same-gender attraction, must await a future answer, perhaps in the next life. Unfortunately, some people believe they have all the answers now and declare their opinions far and wide. Fortunately, such people do not speak for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints."


 * I don't know what causes same-sex attractions, but I do know that we can chose our actions. We can chose whether we want to marry a man or a woman.  My biggest problem with the same-sex marriage movement is that they say that banning same-sex marriage "eliminates the rights of gay people to get married."  That implies that if same-sex marriage is banned, then gay people can't get married.  That just isn't true.  If they turn their lives over to Christ, he can change them, and if it be his will, they can get married to someone of the opposite sex.  Many will not chose to do that, but what they are saying implies that no one can do that, which also isn't true.  I appreciate your work here.  Hopefully we will help make Wikipedia more neutral. Joshuajohanson (talk) 01:14, 31 October 2009 (UTC)


 * I don't know what causes same-sex attractions, but I do know that we can chose our actions. We can chose whether we want to marry a man or a woman. For your convenience, here are links to wiktionary entries for action and want, since you appear to have confused the two. --Dr.enh (talk) 23:17, 5 November 2009 (UTC)

Your claims about the Catholic adoption agency
No, it was not shut down because they discriminated against homosexuals. It was not the state that shut them down, it was the Catholics who shut it down. No, it was not a religious rights conflict, because it was only where they were acting as an agent of the state where they faced a conflict. (And no, it was not due to gay marriage, as the laws that were a problem for them were separate from the gay marriage laws.) The LDS Church continues to run an adoption agency in the state, without placing children with gay couples. More info here. -- Nat Gertler (talk) 03:21, 3 November 2009 (UTC)
 * In your enthusiasm for discussion, you appear to have crossed the bounds of civility (WP:CIVILI when you accuse HitoryGuy of dishonesty. I recommend you edit that and/or apologize for it. - Nat Gertler (talk) 16:43, 3 November 2009 (UTC)
 * Which part seems to be incivil? I honestly don't understand his argument because he is promoting one thing while contradicting himself.  I honestly don't get it.  The article says "What was at stake was whether this charity could received tax funds, act as an agent for the state, and then deny some taxpayers equal treatment when it comes to spending the money they took from them. Refuse the tax funds and act as you wish, accept the tax funds and you become a state agent and lose the right to freedom of association."  No matter how you look at it, the Catholic Church lost the right to act as an agent for the state, a right which they previously enjoyed.  I was using it as an example were the religious freedom was not protected by the First Amendment.  Did the article really say "the moral hypocrites that run the Catholic Church"?  Seriously. Joshuajohanson (talk) 16:55, 3 November 2009 (UTC)
 * The part where you accuse another user of being "dishonest", that's the uncivil part. And no, the Catholic Church did not lose the right to act as an agent of the state. First off, that's hard to describe as a "right" and secondly, they didn't lose it. They chose not to be an agent of the state, because of what acting as an agent for the state entails. - Nat Gertler (talk) 23:41, 3 November 2009 (UTC)
 * A group is marginalized when they are prohibited from participating in activities that other people can participate in. What the state was asking them to do went against their religion.  Therefore, they could not participate in that activity.  You can't simply chose your religion any more than you can chose your sexual orientation.  The state made it so they could not participate unless they denied their religion.  THAT is a breach of religious freedoms. Joshuajohanson (talk) 23:46, 3 November 2009 (UTC)
 * No, sorry, religious freedom is not violated whenever there is something to be done that does not fit within someone's religion. Jews freedoms are not violated when someone else can order ham, and Catholics' freedoms are not violated when there's a job they cannot do because of the religious commandments they choose to follow. If the Catholics are not willing to do the job that the employer calls for, they do not get special entitlement to be paid anyway. - Nat Gertler (talk) 03:02, 4 November 2009 (UTC)
 * Same-sex marriage supporters made up the right to get for same-sex couples to get married and then want to claim that the freedom of religion being exercised by the Catholic Church infringed upon these so-called "rights". In reality there is no conflict of rights because same-sex couples don't have the right to get married. The only real right in question is the freedom of religion. Joshuajohanson (talk) 18:07, 4 November 2009 (UTC)

Something that may interest you
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APA report
Bravo on finding that PL. It should definitely be in the article, providing of course that the "medical"-related stuff stays in the article. I think it would also be an important addition to Sexual orientation change efforts article. – Lionel (talk) 01:56, 30 July 2011 (UTC)
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Exodus International and Ex-gay movement
Hi, though it probably was not intentional, your use of the citation for EI creates a POV implication that is not true. EI has, on numerous occasions, claimed people can be cured of being gay. They simply have the caveat that not all people can be (and the rest should abstain). The statement you cited was used to try to prove (or unintentionally created the implication) that EI is against therapists who try to cure being gay. The truth, on the other hand is that they are simply against "therapists" who claim (promise ahead of time) they can cure ALL gay people as, per their own statements, MANY can be "cured". Perhaps you can think of a better place to put it so it does not support an inaccurate POV? Best, R OBERT M FROM LI &#124; TK/CN 01:01, 4 August 2011 (UTC)

Your recent edit to Ex-gay
Hiya Peculiar Light. Very nice job on that recent edit. I think it now decently balances what they suggest of their members and what they refuse to promise. That brings us back to issues you (and I) still have with the lede. I'll discuss that in more depth on the article's talk page. I have a few ideas... Best, R OBERT M FROM LI &#124; TK/CN 06:04, 12 August 2011 (UTC)

Your edit to the Ego-dystonic Sexual Orientation page?
Hey, I was reading the Ego-dystonic Sexual Orientation page and I found that someone, in the Diagnosis section, edited this line: "This is often a result of unfavorable and intolerant attitudes of the society against pedophilia or a conflict between sexual urges and religious belief systems."

by putting in the "against pedophilia" phrase. There's nothing in the cited source about pedophilia, nor in the surrounding text on wiki. I think you put that in there, but I could be wrong. I hope this wasn't part of some agenda of yours, or whoever did it.

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