User talk:Pyxis Solitary/Archive 6

Carol (film)
The reason I combined the box office and critical reception sections into one section on Carol (film) is because that's how the majority of film articles are structured. I apologize for not noticing that it had GA status, but there's no need to be rude and accuse me of thinking I owned the article. At the very least, we could combine the critical and audience response sections. Songwaters (talk) 23:34, 26 January 2021 (UTC)
 * I'm so used to many editors doing whatever the hell they feel like doing in articles that I was inexcusably rude to you. I apologize. However, whatever you may find in some other film articles, this one complies with MOS:FILM. When a film article achieves Good Article status, it is best to observe WP:CAUTIOUS and WP:CAREFUL. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 01:08, 27 January 2021 (UTC)
 * Apology accepted. Thank you for the advice. Songwaters (talk) 01:25, 27 January 2021 (UTC)

About the revert on LGBT symbols
Blue may be more commonly used, but it is also incorrect. The color on the pansexual flag is clearly cyan, not blue. IlSoupylI (talk) 21:48, 20 March 2021 (UTC)
 * You joined Wikipedia on 8 December 2019. So you should know by now about WP:10SIMPLERULES; and you're familiar with policies WP:NOR, WP:V, WP:RS, and WP:NPOV, too. So then you also know about WP:NOTTRUTH: ', and '  Therefore, if you find a reliable source that says the color is "cyan" ... create a discussion in the Talk page for overriding the 3 sources that say it is "blue". It's not your Wikipedia and it's not my Wikipedia, and we all need to follow the policies for editing Wikipedia articles. It's as simple as that.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 10:00, 21 March 2021 (UTC)

List of lesbian characters in television Rev. ID 1014304172
Just wanted to drop in and say I saw your revision comment about the mysterious revert on the link Ann Walker to the old page name. Our edits were about 12 minutes apart. My guess is you began your edit before I did and I finished my edit before you did. Hence an overwrite due to collision. No worries as you sorted it out. I've been making my way through pages re-linking to the renamed page after my first page move. Any way. Hi *waves* and bye. Cheers. Kimdorris (talk) 10:34, 26 March 2021 (UTC)
 * Thanks! That makes sense. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 10:47, 26 March 2021 (UTC)

About the edit on the Bisexual flag meanings
Just wanted to drop in and thank you for correcting my change as opposed to reverting the changes entirely. Thanks a ton! 44Nifty (talk) 02:14, 30 April 2021 (UTC)
 * I appreciate your kind words. And I could tell that you are interested in what is best for the article. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 08:56, 30 April 2021 (UTC)

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Sian Heder's "See also" section
I notice you added the "See also" section and its current contents to Sian Heder's article. Shouldn't that just contain the link for directors, of which she is one? The one for films could then go in the article for the specific film, since I think all of her features have articles. TGGP (talk) 02:11, 12 August 2021 (UTC)


 * She directed Tallulah. Tallulah is classified as an LGBT-related movie. Heder is just one of the many female directors who has directed a similar movie and whose bio contains this information -- that is intended for the benefit of Wikipedia readers. It's a feature that educates the general public about the many LGBT-related films that have been directed by women, of which Heder is one.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 08:50, 12 August 2021 (UTC)

Sunset flag
What was with that "Sunset flag" thing on Lesbian flag? I offered to replace it if the anon gave me a good reference, but never heard back. Couldn't find anything with Google. Cheers Adakiko (talk) 18:24, 28 August 2021 (UTC)
 * It's all stemming from hives on Tumblr and Twitter. Some people think that just because they favor something and find a niche that shares their POV, it instantly becomes fact. Plus some flag and symbol inventors try to legitimize their creations by putting it on Wikipedia. Cheers back atcha. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 00:51, 29 August 2021 (UTC)

Help with editing
Hi, I could use some help with editing, do you think that you could help me out? I thought that I would ask you for help since you are an experienced editor. I would be very thankful to get some help as it is very hard to do all this editing by myself. Davidgoodheart (talk) 15:42, 3 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Sorry to not reply sooner. I was out of town. What do you need help with? Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 08:21, 5 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Thanks for responding. I need help adding entries to lists, sources to articles, and fixing a table that is currently screwed up. Davidgoodheart (talk) 00:23, 7 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Are you going to be be able to help me with editing? Yesterday I was informed about sometime bad which could have an effect on my editing for a short while. So this is a time when I could really use some help. Davidgoodheart (talk) 17:02, 8 October 2021 (UTC)
 * I will try. It took me a while to get the hang of creating and editing lists, and I performed the trial-and-error in my Sandbox. I created most of my early lists offline and then added them to my Sandbox, and fixed what came out wrong. I kept a template of table templates until I was able to create them without using the sandbox first.  Can you link the diff that caused you a problem for your editing?  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 23:23, 8 October 2021 (UTC)
 * The first thing is see if you can fix the first table in this article here List of people who disappeared mysteriously at sea as it is all screwed up. Davidgoodheart (talk) 04:57, 9 October 2021 (UTC)
 * I simplified the table markup. All you have to do from now on is adjust the width of a column if it becomes necessary. The reason the layout of the 1970–present section is not 100% identical to the others is because the citation numbers are in triple digits and when a row contains three triple-digit citations they will widen the references column, which then slightly pushes the fifth and fourth columns. The way to control this is to use "| rowspan=1 |",  "| rowspan=2 |", etc. -- but then all the "! width="x" markups will need to be changed to "! scope="col".   Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 13:37, 9 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Great job! Davidgoodheart (talk) 14:49, 9 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Please add David Wanklyn to the List of people who disappeared mysteriously at sea. Davidgoodheart (talk) 15:07, 9 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Ok. I did. You can take it from there. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 10:07, 10 October 2021 (UTC)
 * Please add Franz Eckerle to the List of people who disappeared. Davidgoodheart (talk) 17:34, 11 October 2021 (UTC)
 * I didn't mind helping with the list. And I didn't mind adding a new row.  But I have other lists that I monitor and have an interest in.  It's fairly simple to do .... just copy what I did for the David Wanklyn entry, substitute the content in each cell with info about another individual, then paste the new row to the list.   Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 07:52, 12 October 2021 (UTC)

What is this called?
In responding to your comment on a talkpage I noticed another editor retorted you, and in doing so referred to their own private "sex tape". Not sure what that act falls under on wikipedia, but I know what it would be called in a workplace if one said such a thing to a female member of staff. Or have I overlooked something and 'sex tapes' were a topic of discussion previously? 99g (talk) 02:24, 3 November 2021 (UTC)
 * It is called a pop culture reference. If a lesbian is expected to become offended at a nonbinary queer person's (self-deprecating) Adam Sandberg reference, let the heavens fall. Newimpartial (talk) 02:31, 3 November 2021 (UTC)
 * 99g: I have not been formally notified that I have been reported for violating whatevs because of my comment. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 12:36, 3 November 2021 (UTC)

Pyxis_Solitary, I think you can speak for yourself, rather than being 'splained' to here. 99g (talk) 02:50, 3 November 2021 (UTC)


 * You literally asked what it is called - I was addressing you, not Pyxis. Also, please don't misgender anyone - I don't think "nonbinarysplaining" is a thing, but we all know what 'splaining actually stands for. Newimpartial (talk) 03:04, 3 November 2021 (UTC)


 * Newpartial, I am not referring to, or talking to you, nor do I wish to themsplain the other editors talkpage. I am waiting on Pyxis_Solitarys opinion on the matter. You've had your say.  99g (talk) 03:33, 3 November 2021 (UTC)
 * Newimpartial: this is my talk page and you have not been given the privilege of responding to a comment directed to my attention -- on my talk page -- by another editor. Go to your own talk page, say whatever you want to there, and ping the editor of your target. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 12:36, 3 November 2021 (UTC)
 * 99g: The ridiculing of other editors, then resorting to the "you have no sense of humor", "you don't understand me", etc. -- is just waa-waa, boo-hoo c.y.a. concocted as an excuse for behaving like a fool.
 * 99g: 'Never known a female to "womansplain" anything to me or anyone, but "mansplaining" is a condescending entitlement of which the meaning isn't changed because those who do it wrap themselves with a multi-colored gender flag. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 12:36, 3 November 2021 (UTC)

Hello!
Hello!, my name is George Price, i'm bisexual and a new member of Wikipedia Sorry for editing Mr. Magorium is just it did have elements of lesbianism in the film with Natalie Portman's character. Can i be your friend?. — Preceding unsigned comment added by Gng1999 (talk • contribs) 16:50, 19 November 2021 (UTC) As for being friends: only time can tell. I'm open to collaboration with anyone. Pyxis Solitary  (yak). L not Q. 03:17, 21 November 2021 (UTC)
 * It's understandable that if you see a film that hints a character is or may be lesbian, you would tag the film's article with a relevant category for it. But Wikipedia reports information, and all the information must be based on reliable sources. When sources are needed, text can be tagged with a template; however, this does not work with categories. WP:CATV states: "" Which is why I make a point to add the lesbian element of a character in the plot description -- but it has to be an unmistakable characterization or scene, not a personal interpretation.

enforcement request comment
Just thought I'd leave you a note that newimpartial goes by they/them, according to their bio. I don't know how strict newimpartial usually is on enforcing that, but given the context of the discussion I figured I'd let you know you accidentally misgendered them.^^ --Licks-rocks (talk) 13:39, 16 December 2021 (UTC)
 * Didn't know the preference and haven't looked at the User profile page (if it's stated there). Thanks for the info. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 13:42, 16 December 2021 (UTC)
 * One of the user boxes states they go by they/them. You're welcome! ^^--Licks-rocks (talk) 13:45, 16 December 2021 (UTC)


 * I had come here to make a similar comment after trying to get through that extended AE thread, just thought I would additionally mention that there is a potentially-useful series of templates for this listed at Template:Their. It automatically uses whatever is selected by the user's preferences and defaults to singular "they" if there is none. Hope that helps. --Equivamp - talk 16:29, 16 December 2021 (UTC)
 * Enabling the Tools/Navigation popups gadget in your preferences will show the user's pronouns when you hover over a link to their username. Cabayi (talk) 17:36, 16 December 2021 (UTC)


 * Thank you Equivamp and Cabayi. I did not know about that template and the navigation gadget. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 05:15, 17 December 2021 (UTC)
 * +1 on nav popups. Great way to tell at a glance how experienced a user is and whether they're an admin. Firefangledfeathers 05:26, 17 December 2021 (UTC)
 * I just turned on the Nav gadget. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 05:35, 17 December 2021 (UTC)

Hullo
On the off chance your Hagen jut l you have not read this report yet... https://lesbianandgaynews.com/2021/11/where-were-all-the-lgbt-lobby-groups-when-my-daughter-was-subjected-to-years-of-homophobic-bullying-the-mother-of-a-lesbian-teenager-tells-gary-powell-a-harrowing-account-of-her-school/

I honestly did not think the situation in England had ALREADY reached the extreme point described in this report; I wad l have been worried that things were going toward that direction, but I didn't think it was there YE...if that is the new norm in English schools, I think it can be safely stated that at present, nearly ALL GAY AND LESBIAN KIDS are being shoehorned, collectovely mass brainwashed, and socially coerced into identifying instead as a straigh tv person of the gender opposite their biological sex.

The good (yet not so good) news: I really do think that the vast majority of society at large would still see this for what it its: mass crimes against the humanity of homosexual peoples at the largest scale, pushed by a radical fringe minority mostly in secret. The bad news is, most people have no idea this even happening..

What are your thoughts and/or ideas on this matter? Any feasible onwiki options to spread awareness of this? I don't eve think must arguing next need take over the issues; the fasts contained in that report, ai think, speak for themselves any better than we could.

Take care, 2600:1702:4960:1DE0:7CE3:EA9:664C:3348 (talk) 20:34, 23 December 2021 (UTC)


 * Just to make you aware: there are dicks on Wikipedia who have my Talk page on their watchlist. It's pathetic, but they're obsessed with snooping on editors they consider their enemies. So if you want me to respond in a non-restrained, plain dealing manner ... you can always contact me via email. Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 05:21, 1 January 2022 (UTC)

thanks!
For your sane discourse on sexuality and gender here. 2A00:23C4:3E08:4000:5C4:429B:4320:7078 (talk) 10:34, 6 January 2022 (UTC) 2A00:23C4:3E08:4000:5C4:429B:4320:7078 (talk) 10:34, 6 January 2022 (UTC)

Userboxes
Hi, I was just wondering if you could please make me a userbox? I have no idea how to make them and am eager to have a certain one created. If so you can choose the design. Davidgoodheart (talk) 21:53, 12 January 2022 (UTC)
 * I have never created a userbox, although I've thought about doing it for a long time. All I know about them is what is found in these wikilinks:  Help:Userbox Maker, Template:Userbox, and WP:USERBOX.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 06:07, 13 January 2022 (UTC)
 * I understand if you can't make userboxes, but would you be able to find sources to add to articles as well as make infoboxes? Davidgoodheart (talk) 23:16, 15 January 2022 (UTC)
 * Finding and adding sources to articles I edit is second-nature for me. When I add content to an article, I add at least one source that supports the content. I also add templates when I come across content that lacks verification with reliable sourcing. I've never understood why many editors have the time to insert text into an article, but not the time to include reliable sources for their edits. Good editors are diligent.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 03:54, 16 January 2022 (UTC)
 * Do you think that you could make an infobox for this article Duan Weihong. Davidgoodheart (talk) 05:01, 18 January 2022 (UTC)
 * The article is a WP:BLP. All an editor has to do is use Template:Infobox person.  Why are you experiencing difficulty in doing something like this?   Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 05:34, 18 January 2022 (UTC)
 * I know how to do it. It's just that I have a lot of editing to do and need to delegate my tasks. Davidgoodheart (talk) 23:03, 18 January 2022 (UTC)

Discretionary sanction alerts

 * lol. Urve (talk) 04:11, 22 January 2022 (UTC)
 * lol indeed! Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 10:16, 22 January 2022 (UTC)

LGBT Characters in film
Sure. I've stopped editing at the moment. — Preceding unsigned comment added by Gary1227 (talk • contribs) 22:13, 29 January 2022 (UTC)
 * Thanks! I have to redo the edit I was working on.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 22:15, 29 January 2022 (UTC)

Hi, I need help with the references in the article "List of feature films with LGBT characters". There's plenty of them that I simply can't finish them alone. Runningman2027 (talk) 12:09, 27 March 2022 (UTC) Thank you for being so diligent about adding sources to the list. This 'Rome' is being built faster because of it. Pyxis Solitary  (yak). L not Q. 12:00, 28 March 2022 (UTC)
 * Haven't you noticed that I've been adding RS? All you have to do is look at the article's history to see that I'm doing it.  Sometimes a few, sometimes a lot.  But I continue chipping away at the  templates.  And I also review many sources to make sure they verify the characters, and to ensure that they adhere to Wikipedia policies and guidelines.  As long as we continue to add RS, editors who tried to have the list deleted can't bitch about citations needed.

Sorry about writing unnecessary stuff, I just not sure what to write in those empty descriptions. Also, I need your help. I can't find suitable sources for Walk Hard: The Dewey Cox Story and Reign Over Me. Would you mind helping me find them? Thanks Runningman2027 (talk) 11:02, 11 April 2022 (UTC) Update: I did a search of sources for Cox and Reign. I think Walk Hard is a lost cause and will need to be removed from the list. Pridesource.com (i.e."Between the Lines") mentioned Reign Over Me but nothing about bisexuality in it (and if any source is going to point out a sexuality in a film, particularly when it's an Adam Sandler movie, it would be an LGBT source), so I think Reign will also need to be removed. Pyxis Solitary  (yak). L not Q. 11:21, 11 April 2022 (UTC)
 * Oh, heck, R: you don't need to apologize for it. I wrote the kind of summary I did to let others know what doesn't belong in the descriptions. I'm also tired and probably should quit while I'm ahead, but I want to get through as many citations needed as I can while I have the energy. In view of some people attempting to have the list deleted, it's important to check that sources are not only acceptable but also do confirm sexual identities in the films listed. I'll check for the Cox and Reign sources.

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The List of feature films with LGBT characters deletion discussion will continue another week
I did try and appeal to get an editor to close it, but they turned around and said that it is important enough to continue for another week. So, it may be necessary, if circumstances warrant it, to use WP:DRVPURPOSE (i.e. deletion review), or do something else, to make sure the content isn't lost. I've already created a page, in my sandbox, which would be tentatively titled "List of feature films with lesbian characters". I know now to not trust admins to "do the right thing" as they can be just as biased as everyone else. Its frustrating. In any case, if I have time, I'm going to try and create pages in my sandboxes for specific identities in the unfortunate event of page deletion. Oh also CAT:RESTORE may be helpful in the case the page is deleted, as a copy of the text can be requested. I already asked one of those admins about it, in the event that it is deleted. There needs to be a back up plan in case the deletion goes through. Historyday01 (talk) 15:29, 28 February 2022 (UTC)
 * Thanks for the update! I am going to back up the list on my PC. I think breaking it down by identities is going to be the best way to save the history of LGBT characters.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 14:46, 1 March 2022 (UTC)
 * Great. I think so too. The AfD has now ended, thank goodness, in part because of an even division between those who want to keep and those who want to delete, with the closer saying that the "discussion produced a plethora of alternative structures that could improve the situation, including: Splitting the list into multiple lists by decade (List of feature films with LGBT characters in the 1980s, ...), Splitting the list into multiple lists by sexual orientation (List of feature films with lesbian characters, ...), Limiting the list to a more narrow scope, such as feature films with only LGBT characters that play leading roles in the film." I tend to lean toward breaking it down by identities too, as it would be more helpful for people, at least that's my thinking there. --Historyday01 (talk) 19:11, 7 March 2022 (UTC)
 * Based on what I, as a Wikipedia reader, would search for first, the identities is the most efficient method for finding information about LGBT characters in film.
 * I am traveling and my computer had a meltdown the day before I left home. I'm a Mac person, but a friend lent me her backup laptop to use on the road and it's Windows 11 -- and I am experiencing a challenge in restraining myself from cursing when I use it. So I will not be doing much editing (if at all) until I return home next week and cough up $$$$ for a new computer.  Until then, I'll be lurking.  Pyxis Solitary   (yak) . L not Q. 02:14, 10 March 2022 (UTC)

RfC at Wikipedia talk:Manual of Style/Words to watch
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