User talk:Qilledar

I am from Bhopal belong to a very old family of Bhopal, my both great grand father and grand father were Qilledar of bhopal fort, when I born on 11 Nov 1955 at 9.30 pm on friday in govt hospital of bhopal,which called lady's hospital, given named ANWAR JAMAL from one of many uncles who migrated to pakistan at the time of partition in 1947, my father MIAN MOHAMMAD LAIQ (1914 t0 2001) was a very decent and religious person, basically was a farmer when I came to my consious I saw that my family which is known as QILLEDAR SAHAB occupied farm lands at very large scale in different areas of Bhopal City, entire villages were under our control like kachi barkheda, bhainsakhedi, sukasen, khamkheda were hundred of acres of land was under our control, but now we have nothing to show all gone because of some internal differances between family members, in my memory there are some very beautiful moment still there, one of my uncle to whom we called chacha abba (mian mohammad saeed) was responsible for all this destruction, but at the same time all the beautiful memories made because od him only,he invited all the children to stay at kachi barkhrda with him in summer vacation, we stayed with him the whole two month, he arranged fishing at chamari river, went to hunt on chakdi(bullokcart) which used in village road as car for convance. this cart was little different from ordinary bullock cart which usally we saw in villages path(gadwahat)this one beautifully made with wood which was beautifully crafted and was small in size pulled by horses, only 2 or 3 persons can sit comfortably on this, chacha abba never gave company to us he stayed back at home except fishing which he never missed, Arif bhai (As famous Arif bulbul)of jehangirabad was the frequent visiting person of kachibadkheda village, he stayed with us, he was mad about hunting, these vacations always were ful of adventures, besides these vacations we visited on dewali, holi, but those summer vacations were the best because full 2 month we enjoyed each day with new activities, that house in kachi badkhda was quite large in area wise, all this was around 1965 to 1970 now in 2010 I am 53 old aged person and having two sons of age 20 and 15 years, only last year I took my eldest son to that village KACHIBADKHEDA it chage lot but that old house was still their it was parted among those family members who bought it, naturally they ordinary people they got money now but their way of never be like a JAGIRDAR,

This year municipal election in Bhopal city of Madhaya Pradesh win by congress but the mayor came win of Bhartiya janta party Ms Krishna gaur daughter in law of STATE Minister Mr babu lal gaur, he belong to same breed of politician whose assets after entering in politics increase with pace of rocket, so same is the case of Mr Babu Lal Gaur whose assets counted in thousnads of millions, he works for his native place but some time his lack of education showed his vulnerability in taking dicesion,

since of last week I read a book written by 'mahatma Gandhi' its name is " Mere Anubhava" from the begining I took lot of interest because of its language, these experiances of Mahatma Gandhi of himself in life since he came to his consious to his senses, he told in his own style which is so simple the life from the very early age and to his struggling period education, job, journies, social work, interaction with english people, each and every stage of his own life he wrote very honestly, this book after reading came to that conclusion that if somebody would have missed,a chance to interact with real mahatma, but luckily still he/she has chance to interact with him,

'''Bhopal is a unique city where no law and order Exist.
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this city once was famous for its lakes, people were decent, infrastructure was good. city buses were available for every corner of city, traffic was under control, people follow the traffic rules whole heartedly, every activity was looked decent, families enjoyed the evening in garden there were no indecency around, so children freely play game, but all of a sudden every thing changed completly, manners, living styles, the way they talk, the way they walk on road, drive vehicles, rides on motorcycles, if you visit to public places, every manner changed, you see indecency in every way of life, its seem that BHOPAL WASI suffering from some kind of epidamic illness not a single person escape,I had witnessed 100 of scene which left me under great shock and pain, at one time when I was standing out side my house at moti masjid two riders were coming from oppsite dirction one very poor person was riding a scootor another very handsome well dressed expensive sunglasses on face riding brand new motorcycle and was very fast, look wise he was very decent( but was not in actually he was Goonda)when they cross each other infront my house, there was a loud noise and I saw that that poor person was laying on road his scootor was badly damaged laying beside him, and that goonda ( this quality masked until when got down from his bike and come toward that poor person)because of his fast speed he stopped his bike quite farther from actual spot of accident the impact was so hard that the poor's man scootor broke in many pieces, and he was struggling to stand up, that handsome man disguised behind his good appearance pushed his bike back to that spot and parked on side stand and arogantly proceeded toward tht poor man, who now had stand up and looked shocked, he too come forward in applogised way, I was in that impression that they would blame each other and take their way, was never expected that this decent looking person in actually a Goonda and he would started to beat him mercilessly without any warning, but it happened I was shocked to see the way that good looking Goonda hitting to that poor person slapping, kicking, then he hold him by the neck and slammed his head on the parked car and suddenly he took out a very big knife from his expensive jacket and attacked that poor person with knife, now people came forward for rescue to that helpless phsically weak poor person, one maulana who oprating mirch masala business in saulat manzil shop grabbed that decent looking goonda from behind and tried to calm down his rage, this was real picture of Bhopal life, there is no doubt that under B J P government particulariy in Bhopal there is lot of development in many fields but the attitude of citizens came down dirastically because maximum goondas joined the ruling party and became influetial, if their workers caught in criminal actvities,their boss who occupied offices or relations with BJP leaderships came forward and got them release, hence next time they take more daring steps, they have no rsepect for any law, rules & order, if some body visited to Bhopal I would suggest to him that he avoid driving in Bhopal city the safest way is hire taxi or hire driver for your pesonal car, BHOPAL city police is incapable, unfit & completly unskilled in controlling BHOPAL city traffic, they are not trainned to control public traffic but trainned to abuse public, gave hard eye stare to chilren, handicaped disabled persons, and when Bhopal CM passed from city road they blocked the road after shouting indecently at public, without giving any thought to the public blocked the road and hold people stand in open sun heat, and at one occasion they had blocked the ambulance path too, there are no signs on road to educate people about traffics rules like oneway, no entry, no overtake zone etc, and all this is happening because of weak BJP's administration, they are not interested to improve law and order situation, they just started to beautify Bhopal without to get people know how to maintain that beauty for long time. Bhopal Municipal Corporation under Ms krishna gaur and her father in law Mr Babulal Gaur one time labour in chanbad textile mill area is now minister in shivraj singh chouhan ministry looking after industry and human resourses ministry,he helped her to carry out BMC's development work but they are corrupt and theifed public money quite freely, but there is no end because indian politician has such a big stomach which never filled,

batwara
This word when spoken gave a shock to every one because BATWARA mean your belonging which as a joint member of family, community or country you shared with other and using freely now no more in your power of use, it has to be disributed among other members equally, people think that this is their loss because what they were using till now in not their now, but this misconcept which built in our own mind without any solid reason is due to lack of proper education, if we educated ourselves in proper way this misconcept could be erased,but that proper education must be based on that that one you would be answerable to some who is creater of the universe, and for this, someone has to choose right path, but for right path we need deconditioning to our mind but its a very pain ful job, because due to long period of time had passed and layer to layer of different attitude and experianced placed on our mental frame which we can not easily shift, but it is possible we could be successfully change this with deconditionning of our mental frame.

PRICE OF FAME

Today when siting in my shop, open a issue of THE TIMES OF INDIA special issue which they brought out weekly, it cost Rs 6/- if you compare it with their daily issue which cost Rs 3.50 only, but yashika books from where I bought magazine and daily news paper from last 30 years as I could remember gave me sometime free ( unsold old issue ) or charged very nominal charge, hence I always asked for old issue, so when I took it out from under my table on front page I saw photos of very beautiful young women all were model and have a common thing between them was they died in suicide at young age, Although they have got money, good health, high society and compulsory item boy friends and in our society if somebody have all this means he or she is successful, then why they took the extreme step and kill themselves this called price od fame.