User talk:Rey pilarca

Things look unpromising and dejected?

When deathday or same approaches, emotions tumble downhill as we struggle with lonely, depressing efforts to hold back your feelings thinking on what or who is missing?

As to this uncertainty “Is the one you really want with someone else, or pass away, yet you hunger and yearn for whom is missing?” Do you have to push away painful memories just to get through the day and that takes all your concentration and energy? The pain of heartbreak/misfortune can be acute and devastating. The grief keeps us focused on the pain when we think about her/them.

Maybe after sixty (60) years we only remember our true love's face as he/she left us.

Grief held inside is a great poison. The act of grieving is about releasing the toxic thoughts and physical ramifications of those thoughts.

Loving someone - even if it does not last - can become a source of experience and strength to treasure, if you learn to release the grief regularly. But grief last for years.

Taking opportunity to remember the good and bask for a bit in positive memories of having loved someone dearly. Eventually, the pain will go and the good memories will heal your heart for a moment.

by: R.O.P.