User talk:Rolanantony

Hi, Marriage is a most important part of life. Before marriage life and after marriage life is totally different. Married life is not only for husband or not for wife. When man and woman get married each other that means from that time they become part of partner for whole life.

In our society maximum family thinks that most responsibility should take by woman to protect the family. But it seems quite inhumanity because woman’s are sacrificing lot of things like her own family, own environment, culture etc and become a part of a new family with new members, new environment and new culture. After these much sacrifice she did not get proper support from her new family / husband’s family. Even she has to pass her new conjugal life with lot of restrictions by new family members. This problem is major in the joint family.

When a girl get matured and get married that means she is able to understand about conjugal life. Actually only intelligent women are active for all sides this idea is wrong. Woman can carry lot of responsibility with her hearts and willingness, not only with intelligence.

One woman can be success in her married life, if she gets her husband as a strong and active person for all sides. If husband did not care about his family, married life never can be success.

In our Christian community when we get marry to each other, that times we have to promise: we are ready to share all happiness, sadness, good health, sickness and everything as equal between husband and wife. Both we take equal responsibility to make a happy married life. And I think this type of promise or option every religion is having. So, this is clear, husband and wife both should be active in married life.

As per my opinion, husband should take maximum responsibility to support his family to build a happy life. A man can do lot of things for his family because he is not changing his culture, family, environment, so this is easy to share with his partner to make a nice and faithful relation for happy life.

Bottom line is, please do not think woman’s should take more responsibility, has to give more efforts to protect / support her family. Take it own shoulder and encourage to your partner to follow you, you will get better result in the conjugal life, even if you can do that, ultimately your partner will be involve her to give best efforts for you and your family.

Keep in mind, for a happy and success married life only intelligent wife is not enough, you need to make her as effort able and active for your family. Conjugal success is there.

Rolan Antony.A