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Bold text AUM BEAUTY ATTRACTS  BEAUTY  DISTRACTS By Brigadier Chitranjan Sawant,VSM “ A thing of beauty is a joy for ever; its loveliness increases, it will never pass into nothingness”, so wrote John Keats the 19th century English romantic poet. How true he was and how pragmatic his philosophy of life was. I have yet to come across a man or a woman who would like to write a note of dissent to the pronouncement of Keats. We read his poetry time and again and gain always, never lose, not even a night’s sleep. One may see the face of a pretty woman and ponder over her beauty for a long time to come. At the end of the game, the appreciator may lose but he will never regret the beautiful experience. Lives there a man so prosaic who would never appreciate the poetic depth of the line: a thing of beauty is a joy forever? I think not. Indeed beauty attracts. In some cases the attraction may last forever. In other cases an appreciation of an object of beauty would be just ephemeral. Of course, it depends on the persons concerned and also on the circumstances. We may not lose sight of the other side of the coin. Beauty distracts too. Not long ago in a public school of repute an extraordinarily beautiful woman was teaching the higher secondary class English Romantic Poetry. What a coincidence. The lesson was on John Keats and the poem happened to be on Beauty and Joy and their relationship. As she read with great aplomb “ A thing of beauty is a joy forever, its loveliness increases, it will never pass into nothingness”, a male teenager almost swooned. On being revived he was truthful enough to confess the beautiful English teacher was such a great distraction that he found it hard to concentrate on the lesson and her teaching. He was frank enough to say so in so many words that the beauty of the English teacher was a great distraction. Indeed the pretty woman felt flattered. The matter was left at that as it tickled everyone present there. When one goes over the old times in one’s life one finds that the teenage period of life happened to be of both attraction and distraction. The common denominator indeed was Beauty. At the drop of a hat a teenager falls in love with a pretty girl and is prepared to do anything, just anything for the new found love. In some cases it may be just infatuation that blows away with the passing years. In a case or two it may be just calf love when neither the boy nor the girl understands the meaning of beauty and its relationship with love. Nevertheless a piece of sane advice by a well wisher is not taken in the right spirit. Thus the distraction caused by skin deep beauty may end in a disaster affecting limb or life. At the same time we should not be oblivious of the fact that beauty may attract an admirer leading to real love that may last a lifetime. A believer in the transmigration of soul may swear by the love born of beauty and long for the continuation of the relationship life after life for seven generations. Indeed the soul is eternal and does not perish with the mundane body. The cycle of birth, death and rebirth goes on and on until a blessed soul attains Moksha or Nirvana. If the beauty was the foundation of the long lasting love, will the soul be reborn in a body that has an equally beautiful face. It is a question that one may find hard to answer. Going back to the beautiful person with a beautiful face, one finds that many wars were fought for beautiful faces. Helen of Troy had the reputation of having a face that launched a thousand ships to win her over and possess her forever. Moving from the Greek beauties for whom many battles were fought; some won and some lost, let us come nearer home, to our own Bharat. The love tales of Prithviraj and Samyukta are told and retold in ballads in the village chaupal year after year. Prithviraj Raso bears a testimony to the epic battles that the great king of Delhi fought against Jai Chand, king of Kannauj to win over princess Samyukta, an epitome of beauty both internal and external. King Prithviraj Chauhan had his way and Samyukta was his forever but the cost in terms of human lives lost was colossal. A brave and chivalrous warrior like Prithviraj Chauhan eventually lost his kingdom to a foreign invading chieftain, notwithstanding the patriotic fervor of his men who bore arms for him, fought bravely and made the supreme sacrifice for the king and the country. Nevertheless it was the beauty factor that caused the national disaster. The beauty of Queen Padmini of Chittor was fabulous. Her blue blood that flew in her veins was unmistakable. But the distraction that the beauty of Queen Padmini caused in the administration of fiefdom of Chittor and attracted the attack by the Sultan of Delhi caused loss of innumerable lives on both sides. The Rajputs fought and perished for the honour of their king, country and queen Padmini. The invading hordes were commanded and driven by the lust of the ruler of Delhi. The honorable queen performed Sati, perished in fire to save her honour and the invaders got nothing but ashes. Let us salute brave Padmini for her commitment to her Dharma that led to her sacrifice at the altar of National Honour. Turning leaves of books of history of Bharat and other countries, one finds many an episode where Beauty attracted, beauty distracted, beauty led to victory and beauty led to disaster. All said and done, one cannot but agree with the great English Romantic poet, John Keats and sing in rhythm the everlasting line: A THING OF BEAUTY IS A JOY FOREVER, ITS LOVELINESS INCREASES, IT WILL NEVER PASS INTO NOTHINGNESS.” Email: sawantchitranjan@yahoo.com    or   chitranjan.sawant@gmail.com Mobile: 0-9811173590. Landline: 0120- 2454622.

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BHARAT AND JAPAN ARE CLOSER THAN EVER BEFORE
Bold text AUM TOKYO – DELHI CLOSER THAN EVER BEFORE By Brigadier Chitranjan Sawant,VSM

His Excellency Shinzo Abe, Prime Minister of Japan has graciously condescended to be the Chief Guest at the Republic Day celebrations of India on 26 January 2014. This is the first time ever that a dignitary of Japan will grace the most important event taking place in New Delhi. Indeed Emperor Akihito of Japan is the first Head of State of Japan to visit the land of the Buddha in November 2013. Of course, he had visited our country fifty years ago as the Crown Prince along with crown Princess Michiko fifty years ago on their honeymoon. They are the darling of the people of India, the first ever Royals from the land of the Rising Sun to visit the ancient country, Bharat, twice. Now it will be the first time ever that Prime Minister of Japan, Mr Shinzo Abe will be the centre of attraction as the Chief Guest at the State ceremonies commemorating the founding of the Republic of India on 26th January 1950. Indeed Japan and India are now closer to each other than ever before spiritually, culturally, politically and may be militarily. The ever going closeness between the two great nations is not a transplanted sapling but a centuries old banyan tree with deep roots. The Thoughts of Gautam Buddha, a great son of Bharat or India had reached the shores and hinterland of Japan through China in the sixth century AD. The spiritual relationship between the two great peoples has grown from strength to strength in the past millennium and a half. The growing number of dazzling white Shanti Stupas ushering in international peace are indicative of the mutual love, understanding and friendship between the peoples of India and Japan. Shanti Stupas may be seen all over from the heights of Leh-Ladak to the plains of Delhi and onwards to the shores of seas and the Indian Ocean. They make the warring world aware of the loving bonds of Spiritualism between peoples of the Land of Buddha and the Rising Sun. SECOND WORLD WAR Peace is ushered in to apply soothing balm to the injuries, both physical and mental, of the war ravaged people. The Second World War fought from 1939 to 1945 saw the British India and Japan on the opposite sides of the dividing line. Yet the yearning of the two nations to be on the same side in the modern Mahabharat saw the birth of the Indian National Army or the Azad Hind Fauj when the Japanese soldiers and Indian soldiers fought shoulder to shoulder against the British imperialists in the rough and tumble of Burma to reach the goal – India free from the foreign yoke. The Indian Jawans were fortunate enough to touch the sacred soil of their motherland in the state of Manipur in India. Indeed the military history of the period has recorded that the soldiers of the Imperial Japanese Army rendered all help, moral and material, to the fledgling Azad Hind Fauj fighting under the leadership of a great son of the soil, Netaji Subhash Chandra Bose. I have had the honour and privilege of attending many functions as a commentator of the electronic media when the two countries commemorated the cooperation and solidarity of the two armies who fought bravely braving privations and hardships, rigours of terrain, paucity of ration and ammunition. There never was a divide or schism between the military leaders of the two armies of Japan and the then government of free India quartered in the islands of Andaman and Nicobar under Netaji Subhash Chandra Bose. The friendship born under adverse circumstances for a common cause, independence of India from the shackles of the British imperialism, weathered stormy situations and came off with flying colours. The three cheers led by the Prime Minister of free India from the ramparts of the Red Fort Delhi, JAI HIND is a proud legacy of the Indian National Army right from its birth in Singapore with the help of the Government of Japan. I do recall what I saw and heard as a teenager the scenario at the Red Fort where the Court Martial trials of our proud freedom fighters in uniform of the INA were stage managed by the British Indian Army and patriots were sentenced to death. Of course, it was the growing pressure of the people of India, who were at the threshold of freedom that made the Viceroy in New Delhi commute the death sentence to life imprisonment and indeed they walked into the fresh air of free India on 15th August 1947. 15th August has a historical significance for the Japanese nation too. When the cruel leadership of the United States had dropped the first ever atom bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki in the first week of August 1945, Emperor Hirohito of Japan had no choice but to order the Imperial Japanese armed forces to surrender and end the cruelty to people. The Generals of the Allied Powers, particularly General Douglas McArthur had chosen the date of surrender as 15th August on board the USS Missouri. Unfortunately it was that date chosen by Lord Louis Mountbatten, Viceroy of India, to transfer power from the British to the Indians. That date has no significance in the freedom movement of the people of India. Nevertheless the date 15th August makes the peoples of India and Japan partners in adversity etched in the world history. POLITICAL SCENARIO NOW We the people of India draw great inspiration from the people of Japan. We have been friends through thick and thin, both in war and peace. After the great human disaster that struck Japan in the atomic bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki by the Americans, Japan had the moral courage and strength to rise again from the ashes like the Phoenix. The great impact that our Japanese brethren have made on the world economy is indeed worth emulating. The car companies of Japan, Toyota, Honda, Mitsubishi, Nissan, not forgetting Suzuki – the great partner of our Indian Maruti are now household words in India. They have revolutionized the transport system of the Indian middle class thereby cementing the existing friendship between the two great peoples. The Self Defence Forces of Japan have shown the way how to get free from the constraints of a foreign imposed constitution of the country forbidding rise of Japan as a military might. The Japanese soldier, sailor and airman are known as an epitome of discipline and military efficiency. The Sun on the flag of modern Japan is carried by the Japanese Navy across the seven seas and great oceans of the world, not as an imperialist occupation force but as messengers of Peace under the aegis of the United Nations. The Air Force is ever ready to safeguard the skies over Japan and also undertake missions to prove that the imperialistic claims of a neighbouring giant over some islands will not be allowed to go unchallenged. Indeed India stands with Japan in carrying the flag of Peace and Friendship with Japan in an eternal quest of the Shangrilla sans wars. When Shri Sinzo Abe is in India that is Bharat for the Republic Day festivities the two countries will have many more topics on the agenda to compare notes about. Prime Minister Abe is the hero of the youth. He is the first Prime Minister of Japan who was born after the Second World War was over. Born on September 21, 1954 in capital city, Tokyo, he has had the privilege of ascending the high pedestal of Prime Minister’s office twice; first in 2006-2007 and again in 2012 till the present day. Indeed we wish him a long innings at the political wicket both nationally and internationally. Indeed running a high office is in his blood. His grandfather, Kishi Nobasuke was Prime Minister of Japan from 1957 to 1960. Educated in the University of California-Los Angeles, Abe wears his liberalism on the sleeves. He practices what he preaches. No wonder he had joined the Liberal Democratic Party of Japan and won a seat in the Lower House of the Diet or the Japanese Parliament. Rising up the political ladder was just a question of time. Shinzo Abe is a true nationalist too. Despite China and South Korea crying hoarse, he visited Yasukuni Shrine to pay homage to the war dead of Japan. Indeed he did the right thing to pay obeisance to those brave patriots who lived and died for Japan. The Immortal Soldier died so that the future generations of Japan live and breathe air of Freedom. The international political analysts surmise that Prime Minister Shinzo Abe will proceed forward with one goal in sight: to make Japan a great country. He aims at achieving the noble goal by reforming the economic system and empowering the military which in turn will empower the people of Japan and make the motherland a force to reckon with. Abe will indeed earn a place of honour for Japan in the comity of nations where India will ever be keen to be counted as friends.

Email: sawantchitranjan@yahoo.com          or   chitranjan.sawant@gmail.com Mobile: 0-9811173590. Landline: 0120- 2454622. Mailing address: Brigadier Chitranjan Sawant,VSM UPVAN 609, Sector 29, NOIDA – 201303,  INDIA.

STORY OF A LEADER SANS PEOPLE'S SUPPORT
Bold text AUM METEORIC RISE METEORIC FALL OF KEJARIWAL By Brigadier Chitranjan Sawant,VSM

He came, he saw and he conquered Delhi; the man is Arvind Kejariwal. An intelligent person who rose to be a senior officer in the Income Tax Department but resigned from the coveted post to serve the common man is now perceived to be drifting away from the common man. His dear wife is still working for the government in the same department and is looking after her husband well. When the maverick man sat on a Dharna or a public protest on a side walk in front of the Rail Bhawan to chasten the erring policemen, she brought home food to feed the hungry agitator on the footpath. She must have been emotionally moved to find that her darling husband had served on the road under the open skies in an inclement weather. Indeed a devoted couple. The Aam Aadami Party that came to power in the city state of Delhi rising on the popular anger against the corrupt ministers of the ousted party, Arvind Kejariwal became the Chief Minister and many of his party colleagues occupied posh offices of ministers but not the bungalows. One of the colleagues in the cabinet, Law Minister Bharti has come under fire from all directions for taking law into his own hands, violating the procedures laid down in the Criminal Procedure Code and using intemperate language bordering uncivilized behavior, Chief Minister Kejariwal jumped into the fray by lending his colleague unflinching support. Both have fallen from grace and gone down many notches in the estimate of the public opinion comprising literati, glitterati and pavement dwellers. PUBLIC PROTEST BEFORE RAIL BHAWAN Chief Minister Arvind Kejariwal wanted to launch a mass protest by sitting in front of the Union Home Minister’s office before the North Block but was prevented by the Delhi Police. So they sat in protest in front of the nearby Rail Bhawan that houses the ministry and other offices of the Indian Railways. They were there for two days and one night before Arvind Kejariwal buckled under pressure of public opinion, inclement weather, strong attitude of the central government and apparently lukewarm support of the common man. The Aam Aadami was not inclined to join the agitating chief minister of Delhi as he had his own personal problems to solve. In the common man’s perception Kejariwal had crossed the line of civility, propriety and law by supporting the law minister of Delhi who had infringed the law by his high handed approach in dealing with some Nigerian women whom he suspected of drug peddling and indulging in flesh trade. The leaders of the AAP committed one mistake after the other and thus lost the support of the Press, both print and electronic. Kejariwal who had demanded suspension of five police officers for dereliction of duty in rape, murder and prostitution cases could not press the point or argue his case to the hilt in view of the firm attitude of the Union Home Minister. The Central government that controls the Delhi Police refused to suspend even a single police officer and just ordered an enquiry as an eye wash. Lt Governor of Delhi is credited with hammering out a solution by asking two Station House Officers to go on leave which they had already applied for before the agitation began. Thus the Union Home Minister and the Lt Governor just offered a ;lollypop to the crying Kejariwal that the latter grabbed as a way out of the jigsaw puzzle that he had got himself in. The crest fallen Kejariwal called it as a great victory of his but the Media termed it as “ Beating Retreat before the Republic Day”. Kejariwal had bitten more than he could chew. The dwindling public support; people’s leaving the venue of protest despite entreaties of AAP leaders, incessant rain, scathing criticism by media commentators and unflinching attitude of the Home Minister spelt disaster for the mass protest and demand of suspension of five police officers. Kejariwal saw the writing on the wall. Time and people were not on his side. It was a great fall for Kejariwal. He started the agitation with a bang but it ended with a whimper. Kejariwal’s public support is sliding down and it forebodes his meteoric fall. 12:23, 22 January 2014 (UTC)Sawantchitranjan (talk) Email: sawantchitranjan@yahoo.com         Mobile:  9811173590.

VEDIC WEDDING IS A SACRAMENT; KEEPS DIVORCE AT BAY; MAKES MARITAL LIFE ENJOYABLE
Bold text VEDIC VIVAH SANSKAR Commentator: Brigadier Chitranjan Sawant, VSM

A Vedic Vivah is a Sanskar. A wedding solemnized according to the Vedic rites is a Sacrament. It is not a contract which may be rescinded at will. In a Vedic Vivah, the matrimony is for both spiritual and physical benefits. A man and a woman choose to come close to each other and take on special responsibilities of life to improve self and society. They take a solemn vow to procreate and raise children and through good upbringing help the progeny, sons and daughters achieve social efficiency. By entering into a marital tie up, the bride and groom discharge their debt to parents. The Pitra Rin stands fully paid up. Matrimony is for Happiness. A happy man and a happy woman make others happy. Happiness indeed begets happiness. So, our motto is: GET MARRIED AND STAY MARRIED. Allow me to quote from my book, VEDIC THOUGHTS: ``Equality between spouses in marital affairs has been the hallmark of the Vedic way of life.’’ A man and his wife are Friends. Their prayer to Prajapati, The Almighty is: ``MAY WE EVER BE IN LOVE.’’ Let us now go through the important landmarks in rituals of a Vedic Vivah. JAI MALA In the days of yore, kings and captains used to organize `Swayamvars’ where the princess would choose her life partner after observing his miraculous martial feats. Thus martial art and marital vows went hand in hand. Devi Sita garlanded Shri Ram, Draupadi chose Arjun and Samyukta tied the nuptial knot with Prithiviraj Chauhan through swaimvar or the bride choosing the groom of her own accord without any pressure from parents. In the Vedic society women had freedom to choose their husbands and vice versa.Brahmacharen kanya yuvanam bindate patim and it means that when a girl has completed education and is mature to enter the marital stage of life, she herself chooses her husband. Ved Mantras are recited to invoke the blessings of Param Pita Parmatma, the Almighty. The bride takes the lead and garlands the groom, the groom follows suit. One may ask why should the bride take a lead in the Varmala, garlanding , and why should the groom not garland first ? Well, generally speaking, the groom is an invitee at the brides house and, therefore, it is the bride who welcomes the groom by garlanding first. Moreover, in a Swýamvar, the bride has chosen the groom of her own free will, without threat or inducement, and by garlanding the groom first she makes her wish to wed him public. One may say that by this ritual, she has announced her intention from housetop. The guests and relatives bless them. They now move to the mandap – the vedi or sanctum sanctorum – where Vivah Sanskar – Vedic wedding will be solemnized. WELCOME CEREMONY The bride and her people make the groom and his people comfortable by offering an ``aasan,’’ a comfortable carpet piece or mat to sit on. It is the bride who personally invites the groom to be comfortable, to wash feet with water that is offered there. She offers him water to wash face with ``Argha jal.’’ She again offers water for ``aachaman’’ – sipping water from cupped hand to refresh himself. MADHU PARK. The bride offers to the groom semi solid edible concoction called `Madhu Park’. It comprises yogurt or curd, honey and purified butter or ghee. It is for health and happiness. The groom sprinkles a part of the Madhu Park in all four directions signifying a desire to share the goodies that he earns in life with one and all. When the groom looks at the Madhu Park he recites a mantra saying ``As God, with the help of the sun pulsates this universe with life, I shall, after consuming Madhu Park be in the pink of health and attain longevity.’’ While the groom is holding the vessel of Madhu Park and mixing the three ingredients, he recites three mantras praying to Parmatma for harmony all around him enabling him to gel with nature. May air, water, weather and seasons sun and rain, cows and other animals bring sweetness and joy to the marital aspect of life. He partakes of it thrice eulogizing the health promoting “madhu park” as the finest and the sweetest grain. The final phase is : giving away a cow or its cash equivalent by the bride to the groom signifying cultural and economic importance of cow in the social system. Further, the bride’s father is indeed concerned about the health of his daughter and son-in-law. Cow’s milk is indeed Amrit (nectar). Hence, this ritual is of importance. PANIGRAHAN The bride and groom voluntarily and willingly accept each other as equal partners in the life’s journey. In sections of society, under the influence of dark ages, Panigrahan is named as "Kanya Daan" or giving away The Girl in charity. The nomenclature Kanya Daan is a product of a grave error. In the Vedic Wedding it is called as Pani-Grahan - the two Hold Hands to share joys and sorrows of life for ever. The groom presents clothes to the bride and says: "O damsel! May you live with me until the old age. Now put on, please, the dress that I present to you. May you live long to be a centenarian. May your sons and your wealth not cross limits of honesty and integrity. Thereafter the groom himself dons a "Uttariya" – unsewn cloth across shoulder- and vows to be a centenarian while remaining within limits while partaking of the fruits of life. He prays for name and fame all around, even among the learned ones. Now for additional safety from fire and security, one man of groom’s side sits alert with a pitcherful of clean water. Likewise another man of groom’s side sits on the southern end of "Agni Kund" facing North. A brother or a cousin of the bride sits near the `Vedi’ with puffed rice and Shami’ dried leaves in a winnowing basket. Sitting at the west end, he faces the east. At this stage the bride and the groom address the august assembly: ``O ye learned people assembled here in a “Yajna – Shala”, please know it for sure we two have chosen to live together in `Grihastha Ashram’ happily. Our hearts are placid as water and joined together as water mixes with water. We are as dear to each other as the life giving breath is to the living being. We shall be happy together and love each other as a preacher loves the congregation. Our souls shall be in a union of love forever.’’ The bride and the groom hold each other’s right hand and aligning themselves with nature’s gift – air and water – the marital couple says : ``Like the sun draws water through its rays and bestows benefits to all, far and wide, may you and I, by the grace of God, be together in thought and action. May we be amenable to each other’s counsel and ever be favourably disposed towards each other.” At this juncture what the groom, inter alia, prays for is: ``the learned bride, with the blessings of God, should have `compassion’ for both man and animal. May she give birth to brave sons. May she not be averse to ``niyog’’ that is, if and when necessary, she willingly and publicly go in for a physical, mental and spiritual close union with a``Devar’’ (one who with the religious sanction deputises for the husband), to procreate to preserve and protect the ``dharma,’’ the path of righteousness. May I, the groom, follow suit.’’ The Bride prays: ``May the path to my husband’s home be level and wide and I enter unencumbered by sorrow generating disease.’’ (The “Vivah Yajna’’ incorporating Rashtra Bhrita Yajna is performed for making our nation strong and powerful. The individual and the nation are indeed interdependent.) JAYAHOM is for success of the nation. PRATIGYA VIDHI The six mantras of mutual love and dedication. The bride and groom take a vow to live together until old age and have unflinching faith in each other leading to love. They shall ever be amenable. We shall live like husband and wife hereafter. God, our creator and preserver, and the learned assembly of men and women are witnesses to our Vivah – eternal bond of love. The groom makes his intention of receiving the bride and holding her hand forever. ``I am your husband and you are my lawfully wedded wife. Let us two be together in carrying out the house chores. We shall not lead a promiscuous life. We shall give birth to and raise finest children and ever promote peace and prosperity. The groom addresses the wife as `Prajavati’ – one who will beget finest children. He affirms his pious intention of remaining faithful to her. We shall be centenarians. Likewise the bride affirms that none but he will always receive her loving care and attention. Thus both take a solemn vow not to steal the affection of a third person – never to entertain amorous thoughts out of wedlock. The prospective couple promise to look after each other’s creative comforts and give gifts of fine clothes, attractive jewellery. This state of bliss will beget fine children. The `Grih ashram’ that is the second stage of life which the bride and the groom are entering now, will be at its zenith when the two do all they can to provide a fine future to their progeny. The bride and the groom promise to each other that they shall NOT cheat on each other. Let us be of help to each other, to keep the ``third person’’ out for good. Mutual love and togetherness will cement our ties and bring bliss. PERAMBULATION The groom holds the bride’s right palm and helps her get up. Both go round the Yajna kund once. Standing at the original position they recite a mantra to take a vow: the groom says ``I, in command of my senses, knowingly and willingly accept thee. Likewise, knowingly and willingly you accept me. Whereas I am Samved, you are Rigved. You are earth I am sun. We voluntarily and delightedly marry and beget progeny. May our offspring live long until old age – be centenarians and remain in command of senses. The bride follows suit. STEPPING ON ROCK Bride’s stepping on the rock, called Shilarohan in Sanskrit, is a symbolic act signifying that she should be as firm as a rock. The road ahead is rocky; walk well, stumble not. It is her brother or mother who helps the bride ascend the rock. It is a gentle suggestion. Although she is leaving her maiden home and going to marital home, she may count on their help,that is help and guidance of loved ones of the parental home without contravening or ignoring wishes of new loved ones of the marital home. Never mind the tight rope balancing but it has to be done for the sake of Happiness of all concerned. LAJAHOM (Offering puffed rice as ``Aahuti’’) It is a social and psychological ritual of importance. Like a paddy sapling is transplanted and then it blooms, a bride is transplanted from parental home to a marital home where she blooms – blossoms. The puffed rice is a symbol of that. The `lajahom’ ceremony is a symbol of continuity. The Bride’s brother hands over puffed rice to her; she and the groom make an offering of it to the `havan fire’. The ritual makes them stick together through thick and thin. Further, the bride and the groom will participate in `havan’ and other Vedic ceremonies together. They are entering the Grihastha Ashram’ – to live as lawfully wedded husband and wife – perform their religious and social duties together. After every offering of puffed rice the couple make a parikrama (perambulation) of the `agni kund’ that is the fire. Mantras are chanted for the health and happiness of all concerned. VENI MOCHAN The groom unlocks the locks of hair of the bride. Thus both stand released from rigours of the `Brahmcharya ashram’ – a life of celibacy for acquiring knowledge and receiving formal education. The groom chants two Ved mantras signifying graduation to the second phase of life. The groom releases the bride from parental home and formally initiates her into the marital home. Welcomes her as one who will beget bright and brilliant children. GRANTHI BANDHAN Now the vivah sanskar is about to reach the climax. As a part of the preparation for the great moment, the bride and the groom tie the knot – the nuptial knot. It is a symbol of togetherness. It signifies a resolve to face the world together and solve problems. SAPTPADI: SEVEN STEPS TO BLISS  The bride and the groom now take seven steps together and move forward. The vivah sanskar is complete in the eye of the law when Saptpadi (seven steps) is done. Hereafter the couple shares joys and sorrows of life. LOVE IS SHARING The seven steps of Saptpadi are: The first one:- Strive together for food. The two are indeed partners. It is a prayer to attain moral, mental, physical and financial capability to beget children. The second one:-For health and strength. Acquire unending energy. The third one:- Prayer for acquisition of wealth through righteous means. The fourth one:-For HAPPINESS. Let all our thoughts and action generate happiness. The fifth one:- Give birth to and raise healthy, happy and intelligent children. Begetting children is a sacred duty, enjoined on us by the Vedas. Shirk not, shun not. The sixth one:- Let us gel with nature. Let us be environment friendly. The seventh one:- Let us be friends – through word and deed, generate `Sakha bhav’ as is the feeling, the emotion of togetherness through thick and thin among equals. May we ever be in love. Sprinkling of a little water on the groom’s head by the bride is done for cooling effect. He recites mantras for both. Both chant a Ved mantra for a long life and take a look at the sun, if it is daylight. The groom touches his bride’s heart literally and figuratively. He says: ``I pray for compatibility of body, mind and soul. May you listen to me and act accordingly.’’ The bride says: ``May you and I have unity of thought and action. May you listen to me and act accordingly. The Almighty has enjoined on both of us to shun promiscuity and be faithful and loyal to each other. We shall be in LOVE.’’ The groom places his hand on the bride’s head and addresses the assembled guests: ``Kindly behold the bride and bless her before retiring to your quarters.’’ The blessings and flowers are showered and closing offerings (Aahuti) made to Agni –fire. Thus blessed, the newly married couple retire for rest. The newly weds have the pitra rin or parental debt in mind and move forward to take effective steps for Prajanan or procreation. It is both a religious and social obligation which should be fulfilled willingly and happily. AUM.

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