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the mother of all battles

It all started on  one fateful evening during the month of march 1998 that a cyclist while trying to cross over my pedestrian wife hit her on the back.

My wife felt the pain and got collapsed.I suddenly drove her to the nearby clinic and all the firsr aids were given.Days passed and she used to limp her legs as if she was deformed.she thought that it was better to consult an "ortho" and we followed. He prescribed medicines and pain killers.

Months passed and no real relief was in the offing.Meanwhile her leg joints  started developing the  swellings and she became unconsolable as the pain was excruciating and dampening her spirit as well.

By december 1998, I was away at Tuticorin on promotion. As I was placed there, I was unable to get in touch with her all the time as there was no internet and cell phones at that time.

I used  to book trunk dialling and when we talked,  the real story was not revealed to me since my parents and in laws thought that I too would be depressed.

What was more depressing was that one fine morning on march 1999, she could barely wakeup , only her weeping sounds heared as it was routine to  petrol  all the nights by me, my in law, my daughter to look after her needs all by bedside.

We tried our level best to put her on her pedestal and slided her to comfort with much diificulties.

God only knew what went wrong .All the while we decided to consult neurologist who suggested all the medicines for general health improvements as she was pale and anaemic and nothing substantial could be achieved by the way and we went from pillar to post to know what had really happened.

When she developed fever ostensibly by evening, and fever becoming subdued in the morning ,we went clueless.

In the meantime, her joints ( legs and hands ) started showing  inflammatory aigns and it was horror all the way as every minutes passed.

Once we realized, something not related to bones or  nerves we shifted the gears and by the advise of my father's friend , we met Dr. Panchapakesa Rajendran based at chennai.

He was the one who identified the illness as "rhematoid arthiritis " and acted like a father figure  consoling my wife all the with positivity.

If at all we did not meetup with him, during the year 2001, ( i was transfered back to ayyampet on request , thanks to the management ) my wife would have been crippled for life.

For the last 16 years since 2001, we used to consult him every two months and followed his advise like sermons as the disease would otherwise be calling the shots towards mortality.

The sudden mix up which started between june 1999 and dec 2000 were the untold tales and could ever be told. If at all to be described, it should have been  just called "horrifying ", "alarming" , "appalling" and " atrocious" to say the least.It was a nightmare for all of us. To put it short, my wish would be that it was an  experience "not to  be" experienced by the affected.

We looked for PANACEA everywhere and sought SOLACE from every quarter from Ayurvedic, Sidda , and unconventional methods like going after QUACKS who made use of our innocense to spill the beans like pointing the origin of the disease to  the worms at stomach which were cleaned  as if they were the villains and  finally we were  back to sqare one - Allopathy.

One thing that is certain to be reminded is that we went to Kottakkal Ayurvedic Centre for containg the Rhematoid Fever. They finally succeeded in controlling the disease and ending our  ordeals by their systematic approach which lasted for 1 months and we pursued it for 3 years in a row between 2002 and 2005.

Why I am telling all these things is not to elicit sympathy but to make people aware of this dreadful disease which if " not treated " properly would ease out the functions of lungs, liver, hearts to final destination - Graveyard.

We have to make corrections to contain the illness by taking the correct medicines, consulting the doctors regularly, following the systematic food habbits , doing exercises and finding peace with ONE SELF and believing in ONE SELF.

The illness comes when the joints become inflammatory and fluid that lubricates the movements of joints ( synovial fluid ) becomes dried up.

My final request to all those affected by the disease is that 1.belive in one self, 2.believe that arthiritis is not a disease, but an illness, 3.believe that the illness is manageable, 4.develop the will power, 5.believe in god and thank him  that we are fortunate to have a manageable thing, 6.do the right thing at right time ( from intake of medicines to doing exercises, 7. and finally lead a healty and happy life at your command.

Thankfully Yours,

SelvaRaj.

Foot Note : The above story was released to the public with the consent of my wife who  eventually had won the battle with aplomb for the benefit of  readers to carry forward their task for their loved ones like fathes,, mothers,daughters, sisters, spouses, in laws ,nephews, nieces etc..

to my fellow humanbeings
To all my fellow human beings…….

i am a voracious reader. i love to be remembered as a creator in the field of journalism. my goal is to make people aware of their surroundings and try to make the best use of the potentials available to them and lead of a life of their own.

may god be with me in my persuit to explore the world at large.

there is so much joy and happiness in living and caring about our kith and kin.

the cleanliness starts from home. let us make the world a better place to live in.

my concern is about degradation and denudation of green cover from the surface of the earth.

what the hell we are doing. is it in the name of development? utter nonsense.

the words we speak, the action we do , the deeds we execute are complicit in nature.

sir, i am not a preacher, neither do i need to become one.

simply put i am a nomad. i want to live the life to the fullest by showing compassion  and care.

see how we are going about doing things. we impose education on our children.

in the name of competition, the child is losing his or her childhood. in other words, the education is hoodwicked thereby paving the way for society to be selfish instead of being self reliant.

i am not rationalizing my thoughts but making a point to ponder over in other fields as well.

my heart bleeds when i see refugees being driven from one part of the world to another. is it the fault of their own making.

think of larger issues involved. develop a society imbibing the values of free thinking.

let our language be HUMOUR.

let our religion be HUMILITY

let our caste be HUMANISTIC.

if that be the case every one would beat the foe of unbeatable foe within

if that be the case every one would scale the height of unscaleable height within

if that be the case every one would  dream the dream of undreamable dreams.

in the words of swami Vivekanander - rhe great saint India got and Dr Abdul Kalam- People’s president of India…

Try to Dream.

Let your Dreams become Actions.

Let your Actions become Deeds.

Let Your Deeds Decide Your Destiny.

Let your Dreams, Actions , Deeds and Destiny  become Habits.

Let Habits become Way Of Life.

Let Your Way Of Life Change THE WORLD ORDER.

THAT ORDER IS FULL OF LOVE. LOVE ONLY FOR THE ENVIRONMENTS LIKE

WATER AIR LANDS SPACE LIGHT.

thanks for listening.

yours in love

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Get Outlook for Android 101.222.166.185 (talk) 02:59, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 07:04, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:32, 14 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:32, 14 April 2017 (UTC)

Nemesis
I am a natural lover loving to live in this world without finding reasons for my state of affairs that I am solely in for the reason that being in present is the vital for any organism to survive leave alone competing because the world now is laced with lust for power ,money, nepotism ,total disregard for conservation of trees which are the dangerous trends ,I am treading along to spread the message with vigour and vitality. May I see you filled with contentment in life. ok. some people argue that the development and change of world order do stop if we are content with what we have. That is not the case. My statement is as simple as that:

we should imbibe value system in the society for which we should study the way our fore fathers lived and we should ingrind in them the modern scientific thoughts to make the world a better place to live. For that order to happen ,we must respect each other and give each person the dues he deserves in spite of the works that he or she is engaging in because every work is godly and no work is meanial in nature.

Just like every mother nourishes her child with love and compassion, mother nature has provided us with mountains, rivers, lakes , forests , trees , in them animals , insects , birds , reptiles so on and soforth for polination to keep the environments in check and clean.

This is not understood by poor citizens nor even netizens. Hence we do see havocs, quacks , quarrels every where for want of space and air.

With vengence  we repeat what we do today, then our tomorrow is at stake.

without reverence, Nature would take the call. No qualms Not over stated.

Give a THOUGHT to Agriculure the very blood of our veins without which our banking ,business,politics would have no takers.

Unite All The Rivers For The Very Wellbeing of Humankind. Lest The Nature Would Deface All Without Regrets.

with hope and hoping to cope

yours in doldrums

selvaraj. 101.222.166.185 (talk) 03:01, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 07:05, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:32, 14 April 2017 (UTC)

croping in our lands of hands
To,

The Director, Publications Division, Food and Agriculture Organization of  the United Nations, vis Delle Terme Di, Caracalla, 00100 Rome, Italy.

From

R.Selvaraj, 18- 1 / 1366, Nellukadai Street, Kumbakonam – 612 001. Thanjavur District, Tamilnadu- India.

Sir, Your take on Agriculture, it's produce, implementation,infra structure, components, organic ,inorganic parts & soil, finally marketing have made me think ,observe & execute the plans accoring to  resourses available to meet the ends. First & foremost, I must introduce myself. I am hailing from the city – Kumbakonam, known for it's rich culture , heritage & "Mahamaham" which is an occurance happening at our Temple City once in "12"years and there would be convergence of people of all hues and colours spread across india to have a "Holy Dip " out there @ Tank called Maha (Big in Tamil,) Maham ( Culmination & Wiping off sins of the past).

Another interesting facet about our Temple City ( hundreds of temples)is that it is seated in Tanjore District, known for "Big Temple" – protected by archealogical society of india – built by famous king Raja Raja Cholan over 1000 years ago.

Coming to the point, our's is a Rice Granary producing Rice all throught the year.

Our method of cultivation is divided into "Three Phases". Phase 1 "kuruvai"--- short term crop ( cultivation of Rice ). The season starts from May and ends by July lasting for 90 days.

Phase 2 :--" Samba " cultivation ( long term varieties of paddy seeds sown ). The season starts from August and ends by November. - 120 days to be precise.

Phase 3 - "Thaladi " :- After Samba being harvested in January, the barren land is laid to rest for a month and then it has been subjected to rotation of crops like millets, pulses, cereals..etc.

Our culture testifies the fact that the onset of Monsoon brings farmers of delta region to go for Samba ( the North easr monsoon starts from october to Decembar ) and with the advent of winter in January, the cultivation would be over.

We celebrate the culmination of monsoon as PONGAL, the festival of farmers wherein Tamils all over the world celebrate inviting all and sundry showing Universal Brotherhood and Love.

As it is our tradition to engage cows, bulls in agriculture , these animals are very much revered by a Day called MATTU PONGAL. In which the WORLD FAMOUS - JALLIKATTU is taking place.

Though Tractors, Pumpsets ,Sowing and Weeding Machines have comein handy,we as a population to a large extent depend on CAUVERY RIVER which traverses across the length and breadth of Tamilnadu from place of origin - COORGE in karnataka to POOMPUHAR in Tamilnadu.

Poompuhar is a historic place in the sense that it was @ Poompuhar, our great woman warrior KANNAGI was laid to rest.

Kannagi is a revered tamil woman and she fought a great lonely battle against the mighty king of Madurai where her husband KOVALAN (.READ EPIC - SILAPATHUGARAM )was being prosecuted without trial by the then ruler..

The ruler of Madurai ( the place where the world famous Madurai Meenakshi Amman Temple located )realised his folly much to the disdain Of entire Madurai which was set ablaze by the RING WORN BY KANNAGI who threw it cursing the place to FLAMES. That is the reason why infidility is a taboo for tamils and virginity is a way of life for tamilwomen before marriage.

So to say we. all invite you to join us and feedback your knowledge and acumen for feeding the world at LARGE.

THANKS yours in service

Selvaraj 9486324455 India code + 91 Date 26.11.2016 101.222.166.185 (talk) 03:03, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 07:05, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:32, 14 April 2017 (UTC)

my appendage
My Dearest,

i just want to kindle the scientific fervour in you.(spread this to your friends)

this is scientific engineering.

i aired my thoughts decades ago as a fervent student of zoology.

genes make up DNA which is a familiar term now as it is being used to determine hierarchy. treachery etc.

genes are made up of purines and pyramidines.

there r purine & pyrimidine in sequence in DNP which is arranged in the form of Twisted Ladder.-Double Helix as it is called.

Adenins& guanin  r purines, (Necleoside)

cytocin & thymin r pyrimidine.(Necleotide)

All the terms cited above are nothing but nuclelic acids with different combinations of nitrates and phosphates.

Alignment of purin &pyrimidine make nucleoside& nucleotide in D N A to carry out specific function.

each function if our body is controlled by set of genes which are inturn are under the influence of four magic chemicals namely Adenins& guanin  r purines, (Necleoside) cytocin & thymin r pyrimidine.(Necleotide).

My contention is if something happens to structural patterns, manifestation of disease occurs.

By so arranging the texture as it were before, whether one could get the functionality back to square one.

I am sounding as simple as that.

Is it so?

it is as simple and complicated as ageing which is naturl and atleast for now can not be stoped.

god bless young and old alike  to have right set of genes without impairments.

the world's scientific community is working on the above formula of bring back right alingnment for every impairment and every patern be it behavioral to sexual is studied and coded.

let us what shall human do with limitations imposed ?

Selva my id

--   nostalgiaselvasil@outlook.com date 08.04.2017 101.222.166.185 (talk) 03:04, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 07:05, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:31, 14 April 2017 (UTC)

soliloguy
My Prologue with soliloguy

As a citizen, I have a duty to perform. Especially, being a banker, I am duty bound to serve the society at large.Given the economic condition , we as Indians have to look inwards and confide that the banks are important instruments in any society ( be it developing or developed ) to get the country forward towards growth and wealth disbursement.

Having seen the banks fall mercilessly by bankruptcy, largely caused by under performing economy in developed countries and being bailied out by the ill advised leaders, the growth path after the slide has been very tedious and people have been weary and losing focus.

With so many tumble seen across the globe, Rupees depreciated but not decimated, largely due to robust national economy maintained by small , medium class people and their savings. Their contributions to National Exchequer are amazing and the whole world is looking back to us for Guidance & Inspirations.

We as Indians ' though consume a lot' in the eyes of Americans are working a lot ' to live and let live' other economies to survive and they infact consume our resources( hard earned savings ). The mind bogging experiences in adverse conditions have created wealth out of simplicity and saving habits act as a penace for our present generations but for future as well in the globe.

The logic behind all these facts would weigh very much to provide dividends to " young india" provided the structured economy conditioned by the systems & control in India is kept alive and kicking to compete with international markets. The people at large do not need largessee. what they need inturn is employability and renumeration for the work done.

we do appreciate the 'uniform identity excercise' being done by Govt for providing Aadhar Cards and furtherance of the project in opening of Basic Small Savings Deposit Accounts with banks for Mahatma Gandhi National Rural Employment Generation Scheme.

The fact remains as to how the increasing burden of Non -Performing Accounts accumulated in the Banks is going to be tackled as the Whims and Fancies of the politicians erode our meagre resources but they float rules to direct the Banks to finance Educational Loans for the sake of Getting Votes. This vote bank polity is nothing but defrauding the bank in the name of importing education.

Discipline is necessary for any democracy .India being the largest, one need not teach the basics as our parents are our first teachers to imbibe the values of our culture in societal , economical and ethical fronts to their sons' and daughters'.

Not withstanding the politics, the country has withstood many tsunamis , only regret is that the country's sons' and daughters' are made to fell guity of the burden of the amount so borrowed from banks for which their fathers' have "No Say" in repayment obligations as if they are offered as "ALMS".

Do's

1.The banks seal with loan Nos and amount to be affixed in the Mark Sheet. 2.Clearance to be got after due repayments. 3. poor and marginalized people with 'no means' and small means are ought to be financed by banks.by funds earmarked by Govt on priority basis. 4.people of our country are eligible for fair education not free education. 5. After primilinary level, the Govt should look into the interest of aspirations of pupils and direct them in their own fields. 6. All educational curriculam should imbibe the values of keeping the environmental issues with fresh relook into augmenting the resources. we are all citizens of this great counrty, to be respected by the work done.

There is no job which is meanial.

yours faithfully,

Selvaraj .R

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my mother
I Left My Mother In Lurch date 09.06.2016 It is the story of My Mother aged 75 being treated callously by Doctors at Multi Speciality Hospital at Tanjore. My mother was in all pain when I visited her around 7.30 am.., sunday morning on 08.05.2016. She was not feeling well and had difficulty in breathing .As I was emotionally charged and sunday being holiday and no specialist available in kumbakonam.

I decided to take my mother to Tanjore by car along with father and brother.

We eventually reached Tanjore by 9.30 am and after priliminary enquiry, my mother was examined at Emergency ward. E C G and ECO were taken and No concrete answar was available from them. They only threatened to have my mother admitted in I C U failing which the life of the patient could not be assured.

Being the poor guys with no intention of arguments, we obliged.

The sunday went by and the so called cardiologist was not available on that day. By monday  9th, he made an appearance by 11.30 am and visited my mother.

He told categorically said to us to have angiogram done, then only the extent of block known and further treatment to be undertaken. Once again we poor guys followed the suit. It was done on sunday. While my mother was subjected to Angiogram, we all were called by "Company of Doctors " to explain the case to us.

They suggested a "SEVEN DAY " package program me  in which the blocks of the size of 95 %. 85 % and 45 % could be removed by so called "STENTS " costing each around Rs 90,000.

They told us that this had to be done at once and immediately attended to citing the condition of anonymity. So perturbed and with no God Father for guidance, we just prayed to chief (Thief) Doctor for Mercy and save my Mother who is all to us.

He after getting monetary confirmation, went about doing the business.

Every thing was done in about half an hour and he came out informing that all the " THREE STENTS " were implanted and mother O K.

We saw our mother coming in stretcher breathing with inhaler and waving her hand to us about the difficulties. The situation was so charged that we were speechless. She was then shifted to I C U. No one was allowed inside citing disturbances. By about 8.30 pm, all we got was " mother pulse rate is going down " and " we are trying our best".

The so called specialist later visited leisurely and told us in English Terms. The cause of death is accidental. It is called " Thoracic Thrombosis".

THE GOD CALLED " RAMAMURTHY ". My father would fondly remenber those days when he was working at then Madras and in one of the occasions, he had a chance to meet the god of golen times -

Doctor of Doctorate - Mr Ramamurthy whose Idol stands tall with the spirit of service to Mankind ( in the Government Hospital Chennai ) among the filth and fancy of todays world. He would invariably ask his patients to walk infront of HIM and by noticing their stance and stamina, he would guide them to safty taking into consideration the psycho and somatic conditions.

In Todays World. Money Matters. Every thing else is Nothing ..,

Finally, I have decided to SHOOT THE MESSENGER to PMO, CHIEF SECRETORY,TAMIL NADU HEALTH DEPARTMENT as well. The pertinent questions we ask are as follows. The specialty hospitals are today money spinning machine and they never take life so seriously. 1. why is that the condition of my mother who is so fragile was ignored. 2. when they assured to have one stent inserted one at a time, they did just opposite  of what they said. All three stents supposedly implanted in one go ignoring the condition of my mother. 3. We do not really know how many are inserted or they really done it. It is a million doller question. 4. we are going to file an R T I to get the facts and further occurrence of such thing stopped forthwith. 5. Such an atrocity need to be stopped as the doctors are acting as SALE AGENTS for the money they receive from hospitals with perquisites. 6. In the words of BHARATHIAR - " ENDRU THANIYUM IN THA MANITHANIN PANA WETTAI AND ROUWTHRAM PAZHAGU FOR RETURN OF GOLEN REA OF RAMAMURHY AND ETAL. Regards with service to humanity and with all humility R.Selvaraj email ramansel54@gmail.com Selvasil (talk) 14:06, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:31, 14 April 2017 (UTC)

weird !!! whacky !!!! wow !!!!!!
the love is all encompassing

"can any one imagine a person loaning his earnings to poor & unfortunate with out documentations !?

"yes indeed he was a banker  but he banked on the trust &good will of people &earned the co-operation which could never be compensated.

HE  was none other a person called padmanabhan-swamiji padmanabhanji to his devotees.

He served Indian over seas bank at vishnupuram near nachiarkoil until 1990s. H e used to read from osho to bhagavatham. One day he happened to hear the speeches of paranoor krishnapremi and he got the transformation he needed.

"what is going to happen is always going to happen"-bhagawat geeta. He was willed to become sanyasin and peers' pressure to get him married only ended in an ashram called "kottaiyur kudil"

way back in 1920s, the kudil was founded by anna- raman anna. He was affectionately called 'Anna's by people of the village kottaiyur,some 5 kms away from kumbakonam.

until he attained pranayan in the  year 2016 of 90  age, his reverence resonated and  still kicking and enthusing people alike.He was an orphan from thiruvaiyaru .Being an ardent devotee of lord muruga, he was determined to educate (it was denied to him) poor school drop-outs who were persuaded to assemble at chakrapadhithurai and taught yoga and other classes.

He was well supported by sadhu from punjab namely, Rama sadhu..He was in great physique at that time .Anna's vitality and sadhus' virility moved the hearts and souls of big-wigs of the temple city &they set up a school at kottaiyur with one teacher and 25 students.

Today the school named vallalar higher secondary schlock stands tall and brightens the faces of children of villages nearby with pupils strength running over 2500 besides an orphanage center supporting 200 inmates with free food and free education.

Rama sadhu is nomore having passed away at the age of 105 & his samadhi was erected at the school..He was the one who blessed the padmanabhan.

Swamiji padmanabhanji  saw the tears and turmoil's of these two seers in close courters  from very early  in his life &stood as prop root for the genuine cause.

He is now aboding in an ashram near umayalpuram-5 kms from papanasam.

He is simple,accessible,affectionate and full of compassion. He nurtures castless ,creedless,non religious society based on workman-ship.of course the slang goes "work is work-ship"

Nehru's clarion call work ! work !! &work !!! & swami vivwganandas spirited mantras arise ! awake !! & stop not till the goal is reached would not go un-noticed both in words and in deeds.All at the ashram

welcome to the world of love and compassion.

from

selva

date 08.04.2017

nostalgiaselvasil@outlook.com Selvasil (talk) 14:27, 13 April 2017 (UTC)

bonhomie Selvasil (talk) 15:30, 14 April 2017 (UTC)