User talk:Soll22

Userpages
Please don't edit (or create) user pages for other users, as you did at User:Nickjbarlow. Many users wish to have their user page blank, and doing this forces them to have the page deleted. It's also generally a faux pas, since their user page should be theirs alone to edit. This is just a friendly notice to let you know. All the best,  &mdash; Jess &middot; &Delta;&hearts; 00:52, 19 February 2011 (UTC)
 * Oops, sorry I thought that was a helpful thing to do. I am new here, and I thought they didn't realize that you need to create a user page.  Just trying to help out.  Thanks for intervening.Soll22 (talk) 01:54, 19 February 2011 (UTC)
 * No worries. That's why I'm letting you know! :) All the best,  &mdash; Jess &middot; &Delta;&hearts; 02:03, 19 February 2011 (UTC)

&mdash; Jess &middot; &Delta;&hearts; 06:16, 19 February 2011 (UTC)

Getting banned for disruptive editing
When I said that being disruptive like in trying to make a WP:POINT could get an editor banned, I did not intend for you to think that you are anywhere close to that. Just that if the same things get argued forever, it could. A thing I had trouble getting used to when texting first came out, and when I started editing at WP (Wikipedia), is that you don't have tone of voice and facial gestures going with the writing, so it sometimes seems cold and indifferent, or just outright rude or threatening, when that was not intended. You are new, and seem to have a POV, but you seem to be sincerely trying to learn to be NPOV. If someone were to try to get you banned right now, I would argue for you, and you would win. But no one is even suggesting anything like that, and if they do, it will probably be in a moment of frustration, and they will likely apologize to you the next day. PPdd (talk) 22:21, 20 February 2011 (UTC)
 * Ok, I appreciate it. I also appreciate your perseverence with this ongoing let's say, clarification of terms...I guess everyone else is out enjoying the day, huh? thanks for all the wiki refs you send my way.  Yeah, sometimes if you read certain paragraphs of discussion if you're frustrated they seem more charged, if you're relaxed the menacing tone dissappears.Soll22 (talk) 22:27, 20 February 2011 (UTC)