User talk:Thoughtaboutit

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Just to let you know I've redirected your Murder by suicide stub article to Forced suicide, an existing Wikipedia article on (what seems to be) the same subject. Feel free to work on that one instead, or to drop me a line on my talk page if you think I've redirected it in error. --McGeddon (talk) 12:40, 27 October 2015 (UTC)

Hi McGeddon I was seeking to insert a reference to murder by suicide (as in the second paragraph below) or forced suicide by Sociopaths and or Psychopaths.

Psychopathic Bullying http://www.waking-you-up.com/psychopathic-bullying.html BY Thomas Sheridan

One of the most common misconceptions relating to the pathology is that psychopaths are deep down inside self-loathing and they project their inner hatred of themselves onto their victims. Nothing could be further from the truth. To imply this is to suggest that psychopaths are somehow self-reflective of their own pathology - as they would have to be, in order to come to this conclusion. The fact is that psychopaths adore themselves, period. What is being classified as self-loathing is in reality more akin to resentment and jealousy. They do not feel inferior to other people who enjoy the relationships, social life, careers and material goods which the psychopath covets - they just want to take these things away from the victims for the sake of it. A sick game of one-upmanship which can destroy another person’s life for a brief rush of energy in the psychopath.

This resentment is most commonly seen when psychopaths bully other adults, having first developed their craft as children. They begin to realise the value of bullying while still in school - however, they will continue to do this for the rest of their lives as bullying pays off for the psychopath on many levels towards their relationship, social and employment ambitions. Although a psychopath will implement a smear campaign or bullying campaign against another person at work or in an organisation in order to take over that person’s position - the underlying thrust is that the position the victim holds is what the psychopath desires for themselves. It’s nothing really personal against the victims as such - they just have to give up to the psychopath what they have. If this leads to the bullied victim resigning, transferring to another department or even killing themselves (murder-by-suicide) then so be it. Once they give up what the psychopath wants from them, they do not care one iota how the victim chooses to undertake this.

Covert Psychological Murder/Manslaughter: Death As A Result Of Pernicious Abuse Psychopathy and Sadism - https://psychopathy101.wordpress.com/2011/07/11/psychopathy-and-sadism/


 * Actually, it looks like bullycide might be the more relevant article here. I'm not sure there's really anything much to add from the paragraphs you quote above. --McGeddon (talk) 17:09, 31 October 2015 (UTC)

November 2015
Welcome to Wikipedia. Although everyone is welcome to contribute constructively to the encyclopedia, your addition of one or more external links to the page Bullycide has been reverted. Your edit here to Bullycide was reverted by an automated bot that attempts to remove links which are discouraged per our external links guideline. The external link(s) you added or changed (https://psychopathy101.wordpress.com/2011/07/11/psychopathy-and-sadism/) is/are on my list of links to remove and probably shouldn't be included in Wikipedia. If you were trying to insert an external link that does comply with our policies and guidelines, then please accept my creator's apologies and feel free to undo the bot's revert. However, if the link does not comply with our policies and guidelines, but your edit included other, constructive, changes to the article, feel free to make those changes again without re-adding the link. Please read Wikipedia's external links guideline for more information, and consult my list of frequently-reverted sites. For more information about me, see my FAQ page. Thanks! --XLinkBot (talk) 00:45, 4 November 2015 (UTC)

Please delete my profile Wikipedia is obviously more about self important academics rather than issues. I no longer wish to be associated with it. — Preceding unsigned comment added by Thoughtaboutit (talk • contribs) 06:51, 4 November 2015‎


 * For what it's worth, that message above wasn't from a self-important academic, it was from a "bot", a script that's been programmed to automatically revert the addition of Wordpress links from new users (because Wordpress sites are blogs, which are almost never appropriate as references or as external links). Don't take it personally.
 * Wikipedia doesn't delete user accounts, not even of the users who get permanently blocked for vandalism, but if you want people to know that you're done here you can WP:RETIRE by pasting "retired" onto your userpage or user talk page. --McGeddon (talk) 09:28, 4 November 2015 (UTC)