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[Drugs Addict Addicted And Addiction
I’m a small person with very small knowledge I live in Third world where corruption is everywhere. I'm an addict and went to rehabilitation center several times. But result is Empty. In my life I faced very hard situation and finally learned Childhood guidance is the most important part of life. If the base of knowledge is poor then future will be in danger. It's guardian’s responsibility to made him/her what they want to make them. But when mistakes have done then we have to correct that mistake. Otherwise mistake will take a human or 'whatever you say' addict to death. It's our destiny. So to save my self I’m trying to correct my mistake but for that I "An Addict" need help from my family first, then society and government. In my 16 years of drug addiction I'm writing my opinion to help me and others. So if someone have some logical opinion please without hesitation write your opinion and show me what is wrong and right decision.

Every human being has personality. That personality is the part of his psychology. Even some time we call some men “personality less person”. Actually he has his own thinking style or point of view, that’s his personality. When that person fall into drug addiction, his mind begun to change slowly. It’s one kind of mutation of psychology. Then it’s very difficult to find his original personality. If we really want to help addict persons then we have to know the “psychology of an addict”.

In the society we divide people by two categories which are - good and bad. In the society we can find out a good person also we can find out a bad person. It’s normal. But I’m taking about an addict person. Are they bad? All of them!?

If I try to give some example like: Your son is	In the other hand a poor persons child 	He is 12 years old and he is very gentle, honest and meritorious. 	He is also 12 years old and very gentle, honest 	His education life is running well. 	He can’t study in a school. He struggled for life from 12 years age 	After 6 years he admitted in a college. 	After 6 years he became a (Rikswa) driver or a labor. 	That time he was gentle like before (Normal change or Psychological growth.) also it depends on society. 	Also same (Normal change or Psychological growth.) also it depends on society too. He is normal and his psychology will be normal as usual. Same too.

It’s normal that some of his characteristics & behavior will change. But he will still be a good/normal person in the society. Isn’t he?

Now if incase, your and his child, both fall into drugs addiction then? For drugs Your son is	In the other hand a poor persons child 	He will tell lie for money		He will tell lie for money too. 	He will start to steal money from your pocket 		He will start too. Maybe it could happen in different way. 	After 2/3 years, he will highjack or cheat people. In one word he can do anything for money and that time he will not think about his status, personality or 		He became a drug seller. Are they good men?

Then what is the difference between your one with his one. You could find that, at the same situation like your, another person’s son became a police or doctor and took the honorable place in the society.

Now my question is who is bad? 	Your son or 	His son or 	Anything else that you don’t know?

How drugs affect a persons brain… Actually drugs react with brain and when a person became an addict his body and mind want drugs. To prevent this desire, an addict try to take drugs first, he don’t think any thing else or about future. That means, addiction of drugs takes the first place in addicts mind. That’s why he can’t think anything else and to achieve his goal he began to think only about drugs. For taking drugs he will try his best to get that. In our society no one support drugs but an addict does. For an addict it’s vital, so if you don’t give him money he will try to take different way like cheating, telling lie, stealing, even if he need he will try kill any one to get that money. It’s depends on his normal psychology. In our society there are lots of people who don’t take drugs but do many bad things, it’s their psychology. If a addict person hold such kind of bad mentality or psychology before he was an addict, then it will be very simple for him to kill a man for drugs. It’s like food. If you can’t get food when you are hungry, what can you do or what any other person will do? It’s depends on normal psychology, may be you will try to take loan but another person will try to still. That same thing happened incase of addiction. Drugs are like “food” for an addict.

For human food is the vital thing. If the crisis of food come then it will be difficult for you to get it. If more difficult to get then you will try to get it more difficult way.

If I say food is = X and client is = Y. Now quantity of X = 10 and Quantity of Y is = 10 Then it will be normal. If quantity of X come down to 5, then it will be difficult to get it for Y. That’s mean that only half of human can eat. Now, what will do the rest of them? Obviously they will start fighting.

That same thing happens for addict persons. When the quantity of drugs will be available and the money is available, there will be no problem but when the supply will come down then its price will rise up and it will be very difficult to get. Then what can an addict do? Same like food, they will start fighting. And because in our society it’s not supported, no guardian will give money for drugs to his child. So normally it’s difficult to get drugs for an addict and if drugs became rare then the price will be very higher. And then an addict will start to fight for it. They will become desperate and they will do what they can do.

So the main thing is when a person began to take drugs continuously after few days his body and mind will want drugs. And drugs take place in his mind and alter the place of moral needs of human. Then, for that person, drugs will be vital or main thing in his life.

Different people have different style of thought to achieve his/her desire or goal. Some time his desire become critical and to accomplish that, he takes critical ways. It’s his/her normal psychology.

If I try to show psychology by symbol then I can say – Mr. Lio’s psychology is = A Mr. Robin’s psychology is = B Mr. Ryio’s psychology is = C

And if I try to explain “A” – He is a good person. He never harms others. He always try to accomplish his desire by good way. “B” – He is a selfish person. He always thinks about his own benefits. To achieve his goal he can harm anyone individually. “C” – He is not fully selfish but he easily can be motivated by others. By showing him benefits anyone can motivate him/her to do bad thing. For others he can do bad thing.

These three persons have different psychology. Now if they fall into addiction, what you can expect from them. Are they going to do same thing to get drugs money? Simply it will be “NO”. Individually this three persons will act by his/her psychology, that’s mean they will think by there own way.

Now, needs or quantity of drugs always grow up day by day for an addict. At starting time one time is enough for an addict but day by day his needs will come up to high level. That time it will be very difficult to arrange money for an addict. Then he became desperate. Then motivated by other addict he come to do what he never had done before. By this process his character and psychology began to change. And day by day his main character despaired. That’s the big problem for an addict, which are not happen to a normal people. If we draw a chart of an addict and a normal person we can see –

With in five year, an addict behavior change 100% and that’s mean he is not the one who was 5 years ago. His psychology totally changed with in 5 years of addiction life.

Comments... It’s very difficult to treat them and bring back their original character. That’s why most of the patient took drugs again after taking treatment. A poor country like our, treatment centers can’t treat them by that process and society don’t give them enough time too. I’m saying all this thing because I know with my short knowledge that, addiction is not physical problem, it is psychological problem. If you want to cure or recover an addict, you have to bring back his original psychology by giving him enough time to think about himself. But it is our bad luck most of the treatment center don’t give them enough time to think about themselves, they keep them busy with others problems after getting a short time treatment. For that, after few days or months when they face reality they fall again into drugs.

Real life is not very easy to maintain. A simple problem is big for an addict, because they are not habitant with reality for a long time. They passed their life in other world where this reality never comes between them (person and drugs).

What we can do to help them? To help an addict, at first we have to know his psychology. I already mentioned that, an addict behavior is not his original behavior. So firstly- 1.	We have to know about his original psychology (past). 2.	Then we have to know about his current psychology (present). 3.	After that we have to analyze both psychologies and measure differences. 4.	We have to collect information about his family members and understand their psychologies too (past and present). 5.	We have to collect information about his friends circle (past and present). 6.	We have to collect information about social activities (past and present). 7.	We have to collect information his native opinions about him (past and present). 8.	We have to know his opinion about his family members. 9.	We have to know his opinion about his friends (past and present). 10.	We have to know his opinion about his native. 11.	Most important question is, when he took drugs for first time & what is the cause? And how or why he continuously took drugs?

These are very important information to help and recover an addict person from drug addiction. In another word it’s his case history, which will help to find out the original problem. Only then we can do something to change him and make him a better, healthy wealthy and worthy person in society.

How information or case history can helps an addict? 1.	We have to know about his original psychology (past). Man creates his own destiny. An addict is responsible for his addiction. Mistakes from the past took him to the road of destruction. So if we can know his original character and psychology then we can find out his mistakes. After recovering from drug addiction that same type of mistake can take him to the road of drug addiction. So we have to change some of his bad habit and character, which comes from his past mentality.

2.	Then we have to know about his current psychology (present). Present is the road of future. When a person became drug addict, his behavior slowly changes. It’s the affect of drugs. So, if we can know his current psychology then we can point out the differences between his past and present behavior and we can prevent this kind of changing by proper training and classes.

3.	After that we have to analyze both psychologies and measure differences. If we can measure differences, then we can find out his psychological problems and we can treat them specifically. This will ensure that, we can bring back his original behavior. And we can see his improves.

4.	We have to collect information about his family members and understand their psychologies too (past and present). It’s the most essential and vital matter. We can’t blame an addict alone. For his addiction he is not responsible alone, his family also responsible for his addiction. Miss guidance, rude behavior, careless behavior, quarrels etc. can also make support a person to take drugs. Also most of the families don’t have proper knowledge about addiction and they don’t know how to help an addict. Some time after treatment when an recovering addict come home their family think that, after treatment an addict fully got cured, so they don’t worry about them (Recovering Addict). Some time for short knowledge family always behave with them suspiciously. Or try to push them to do something very quickly, blame them for loses they have done in addiction life, but it’s wrong. For these kinds of problems family of an addict also need some classes about an addict person psychology and co-addiction (for an addict, a family also have to suffer psychologically and they also become to act or behave like an addict, mentally). But It’s our bad luck that most of the treatment center don’t give them (family) proper classes and advises for future or they don’t took it seriously. Also family think that they are not addict so they don’t need any classes, just like an ordinary sickness when people get sick doctor treat only that sick person not his family member. But in this case it’s different, because addiction is not curable, it’s like diabetes but it’s preventable. So, if you want to help an addict person then you have to work hard and understand about drug addiction and co-addiction only then you can help an addict to walk in a normal road where everything is beautiful.

5.	We have to collect information about his friends circle (past and present). It’s very important and difficult to make friends for an addict. Friends in past life, those who are addict, after treatment he can’t spend time with them. If he spends time with them, then emotionally he will get weaker and he will loose his control and for fun he will take drugs and universal truth is that, “If you start you can’t stop” and “First dose does the damage”. That’s why after treatment a recovery should always avoid bad company or addict friends. So if we can collect information about his friend circle then we can warn them, whom he should avoid and how he can avoid them. 6.	We have to collect information about social activities (past and present). It’s very important to know the activities of an addict because when he will start his new life, then he had to adjust in the society. “How he can adjust?” to solve this problem we have to prepare him like that. Also we can warn them about future social problem that he had to face.

7.	We have to collect information his native opinions about him (past and present). From this information we can justify his(addicted) social position and if he want to live his life by drugs free then 	how society will deny him, 	what kind of position he can made in reality 	In case of avoiding, what can a recovery do or not to do, in one word Making decision

8.	We have to know his opinion about his family members.

9.	We have to know his opinion about his friends (past and present).

10.	We have to know his opinion about his native.

11.	Most important question is, when he took drugs for first time & what is the cause? And how or why he continuously took drugs?

Prevention plan:

Co-Addiction

Co-Addiction is the most important part of drug addiction treatment. Without solving this problem it’s quite impossible for an addict to stay in recovering life after treatment. What is Co-Addiction? Family of an addict also faces psychological disturbance for an addict. For that their behavior and thinking style also change and that is not normal. They don’t think all simple matters simply as an ordinary family think and that is “Co-Addiction”. So with an addict their family also needs some changes in their psychology. They need proper classes to understand “what is the main problem in them?”. Some time family claim that they have done their best for their member but that member didn’t listen, they fall into addiction again and again after treatment. If so then member need to know that they have some old lacking in their thinking style and behavior which are also can responsible to take drugs after treatment.

First commitment of Rehabilitation center for an addict is to make family understand about drug addiction and its side-effects to an addict and his family. Otherwise treatment will be value less for an addict and they will easily start taking drugs again after treatment. But it’s our bad luck that most of the treatment centers don’t give family proper classes and also most of the families don’t think that they could have some problem in their behavior or point of view, which are influencing recovering addicts to take drugs again and again.

For these kinds of short knowledge, some time family wants to help, but they don’t know the right way for their addict member to help and that’s why they can’t help. So if you really wants to help an addict then you have to know the way otherwise you can’t show the right way for your beloved member.