User talk:Unicorn4763

To Whom it may concern, I would like to send Mr. David Paterson a email.I reported my daughter,her husband,and her boyfriend for child abuse.The youngest came up here to stay for the summer.He was abused once again along with his two half brothers.My daughter made up some lies so that myself,both her brothers,my husband,and my younger brother.They cleared all of them and said that they have been found Not to be responsible for causing injury,abuse,or maltreatment to the child or for allowing such injury, abuse or maltreatment to be inflicted on such child. I have not done anything but protect him. Once I got my daughters address I filled abuse charges on her.I admitted that when there was a report filled the first time she was charged with abuse that I did not report it when I should have,but once again she abused her children,and when I got her to trust me enough to give me her address after I learned that her husband had given the boys back to her, I then reported her and her boyfriend.Now I did everything asked of me. I quit smoking marijuana almost a year ago it will be Nov. 23. I dont drink and have not a thing to endanger--my grandson,yet they indicated me once again.I could understand why they did it before because I did not report them when I should have,instead I kept quite to protect my daughter. I know that was the wrong thing to keep quite about. When I did say something before the damage was done. This time my daughter took off and left the state without any of us knowing.I found out after she had been gone a few weeks. I was devastated because I learn that she had stoped by her husband and picked up her youngest son and left the other two there.I started sending her messages to get back in her good graces so that I could get her youngest child for the summer.She did not trust me with her address so she gave me a fake one.I found that out from my ex husbands brother. So I just went along with her games so that she would trust me again,and it worked.She allowed my youngest son to bring him up here on the plane with him. She still would not tell me the address to where she was living,instead of my son picking him up from her house she and her boyfriend met my son at the airport. When they arrived my grandson had some marks on him and told us what happen to him that he got the scars from. So I started working on my daughter to find out her address,it took me a few weeks but once again she gave me a different address to mail her the tickets and papers that said she was not going to have a licence if she did not get insurance. Then I found out from somebody that she was living in Mississippi so I got in touch with my daughter and told her that she was telling me a lie about where she lived. Well she finaly gave me the address,because I told her that I was going to need it in case of a accident.Two days later she called to talk to her son,she knew I was acuseing her and her boyfriend of abusing him and that I was not sending him back.I had talked with a attorney already to discuss not sending him back and he recomended trying to get her husband to help us,but that did not work.So she called to talk to her son and out of the blue he asked about his brothers and to my shock and surprise the boys were with her.I could not believe that she got them back from her husband after I told him I was not sending the youngest one back.So when he got off the phone with his mom I called Mississippi to report her.I was not going to wait knowing that she had the boys back,I knew she would not of changed her ways because she got away with it the first time.While on the phone with her one of her sons tried killing a fly on the window and put his hand through the window and instead of checking his hand she was screaming at him for breaking the window.So I got right on the phone and reported it.I knew I could not delay the phone call because she had two of the kids now.I just got the address and I could not work on my own time clock because of the safty of the other boys.With the child I had with me I could delay for a week so I could get his paper work. I needed a birth certificate and social security card so that I could get insurance on him,and get him in to see my psychologist and put him in pre school.But time was no longer on my side,I had to protect the other two. I was not going to let what happen the first time happen again.I could not protect her,she proved to me that she was not going to change.They went over there the same day I reported her and found that the children needed to be taken from her.They came here 11:30 pm and saw that things were fine with the child I had with me.Then my daughter made up lies and they started to investigate all of us. I knew everything was fine here.I had quit smoking was not drinking and taking good care of my grandson.I went and had the drug test that they told me to get done and I did and it came back clean except for the pain medication my doctor has me on.Then I go to Twin county recovery as they asked me to and always tested clean except for the medicine I was on.But as far as drugs go I was clean and not drinking.I was doing great,I was on my journey to enlightenment.I had turn to Buddhism and learn new tools to deal with my memories of abuse and flashbacks from my own childhood of sexual abuse.I would never in a million years that they would of indicated me again.I was shocked and very upset because I have not done anything wrong.I did not hesitate to report them for abuse when I learn the boys were there,I even got her to give me the address where she was living.The youngest was safe with me I was not going to send him back.Please help me with getting this report amended. Dori Hodges