User talk:Whippedbabe

Is love blind ?

I have heard people say that love is bland but I say its not love that’s blind its some kind of spell that falls upon most mothers which gives them a false since of security and a feeling that there partners can do no wrong.

I been thinking a lot lately about having kids but after witnessing all of my childhood friends and my mother make some of the biggest mistakes of there life’s. I’m now considering not having any children at all.

when I was young I did not think about having kids and if it can make you lose your mind but now I’m happy with my partner and thinking of having kids I have been looking back on the experiences of my mother and my childhood friends. My mother is the first case in witch I witnessed this blindness I have nosiest, My mothers big mistake was taking my father back after he beat her but at least she was doing it because she thought I needed my dad that she was doing what’s best for me witch we both can see now it was not the best idea she ever had, that’s not her only mistake she had four husbands and seven kids me being the youngest. Me and my siblings don’t get on all blaming one another for our parents down fall only I can see it was my mothers fault if she just stayed single after her first marriage she would have had time to sort her self out and work out what she wants form life instead of  chasing a long lost dream of being in a loving family.

Each day I see my sister in law making the same mistakes as my mum going from one man to anther saying they are putting there kids first but how is subjecting your children to your unhappiness  and your choice of  the “perfect” partner  putting them first. I can safely say that if my partner ever hit me or made me feel unsafe in his prance I would leave him even thou  I think he is the love of my life.

most the mothers I know stay, they say they love there man and it wont happen again but it all ways dose and the women don’t learn if a man can hit you once what’s to say he wont again.

Looking back one of my childhood friends we’ll call her Claire, she got married strate after school to her high school boyfriend and all was well for two years but then  just when she thought her life could not get better her man lost his job and just like that he changed and he became violent. She stayed for a few months covering for him saying he loves her but one night there she was on my door step crying saying that’s it and she left him never looked back. I could say it’s the best thing she could have done but now she has two kids with her new man and he is an ass, he has no job, calls her names in front of people and has hit her at lest once that I know of. Claries not happy but her kids are her life and she wants him to be apart of that witch makes her except what ever she gets from her man and stops her from seeing  that her kids are going to suffer in the long run.

my single friends jump from man to man but they have no kids so its only them self’s getting hurt when they choose the wrong person to spend there life’s with. I have asked my single friends what they would do if there man hit them and some told me they have been  there, had a man who made them feel bad about them self’s but not one of them stayed with  the “man” they all moved on.

So I ask you is it love that’s blind or is it having children that makes you blind ?

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