Wikipedia talk:Requests for comment/Insert-Belltower

Re: WP:CIVIL
1. WP:CIVIL - Both sides have been uncivil however Amerique and WHS have either retracted and/or apologized for comments. Insert-Belltower has resisted owning up to or apologizing for this past conduct. Insert-Belltower did however accept Amerique's apology.

Insert-Belltower's Response: How is it appropriate that I apologize for issues warrant no apology? Neverthess, I have attempted to apologise twice to WHS for my preceived tone on the talk page, but it has only been met with consernation.


 * You didn't attempt to apologize. All you did was issue to me an easily recognizable non-apology apology. Your statements:
 * "Seriously. Those comments about the soda and Myrtle Beach were not intended to be patonizing. I'm sorry if you took it that way.Insert-Belltower 03:51, 16 July 2006 (UTC)"
 * "WHS. I just re-read your statement. You mentioned that I sounded condescending when I stated that I think this is affecting your health. This is not what was meant by that. At the time, you seemed upset and everyone knows the stress is not good for one's health, so I suggested that you get a soda. Getting a soda usually helps me when I get stressed. I regret that you felt that I was being condesending towards you. I hope we can put this matter behind us now. What do you say? Insert-Belltower 22:47, 15 July 2006 (UTC)"
 * I'm not a stupid person, I-B, so please don't attempt to characterize me as such by saying you apologized when you did no such thing.--WHS 18:14, 22 July 2006 (UTC)

Fair enough. I'm sorry I made those comments.Insert-Belltower 00:49, 23 July 2006 (UTC)
 * Thank you for the apology. In the future, I hope comments made by both our parties will be more civil. --WHS 04:53, 23 July 2006 (UTC)

I hope so too.Insert-Belltower

Suggestion
After reading Doc Troppics comment I have a suggestion to Insert-Belltower and Amerique. Why not try to request Mediation again (Formal or Informal through the mediation Cabal up to you). In this case however it would only involve the two of you (WHS, UCRGrad et all would not be involved). That way you could discuss the issues you have with each other with out outside influence on either side with a Neutral Party over seeing it. It could help to keep this issue from going higher and might even start to help with the other issues. How do the two of you feel about this? Aeon Insane Ward  19:09, 25 July 2006 (UTC)


 * I'd like to second the motion for another attempt at Mediation, and at the lowest level of "formality" the the parties are comfortable with. A move to de-escalate the situation certainly seems promising. --Doc Tropics Message in a bottle 19:43, 25 July 2006 (UTC)


 * I agree. Mediation would be good for this case. The Mediation Cabal would be the least formal of the least formal, so to speak. I will recuse myself from any MedCab Mediation on this subject, as I wish to avoid any potential conflicts of interest here (having placed a critical OV in this RfC already.) Torinir  ( Ding my phone  My support calls   E-Support Options  ) 18:04, 31 July 2006 (UTC)