Zus & Zo

Zus & Zo is a 2001 Dutch film directed by Paula van der Oest. The film follows Nino's impending wedding to a woman despite being gay, sparking conflict among his three sisters who aim to stop the marriage, ultimately leading to revelations about Nino's true identity.

The movie received mixed reviews from critics. It was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Foreign Language Film.

Plot
Nino's 33rd birthday is approaching when he surprises his family by announcing his impending marriage in three weeks. This revelation shocks not only his mother but also his three sisters: Sonja, a writer married to Hugo; Michelle, heavily involved in charity work and married to Jan; and Wanda, a single artist who has been having an affair with Hugo. All three sisters are troubled by Nino's decision, knowing he is gay and has lived with Felix for years. They suspect the marriage is solely for the sake of inheriting their late father's hotel, Paraíso, a promise made to Nino if he ever married, despite his lack of romantic interest in women.

The sisters confront Nino during his visit to the registrar, where they meet his girlfriend, Bo, who surprises them with her warmth. Despite their initial plan to break up Nino and Bo, they are unsuccessful. Meanwhile, Sonja discovers Hugo and Wanda's affair and retaliates by including a scene in her new article about women's fantasies involving her and Jan.

As the wedding in Portugal approaches, Bo involves the sisters in the preparations, unaware of their initial intentions. The sisters eventually disclose Nino's sexuality to Bo, who responds positively, revealing her awareness and acceptance of Nino and Felix's relationship. However, Bo's subsequent announcement of her pregnancy with Nino's child complicates matters, leading Nino to confront his own doubts and realization of being transgender.

On the wedding day, Nino's mother intervenes by inviting Felix, prompting Nino to halt the ceremony and confess his true feelings to Bo. Bo supports Nino's decision to be true to himself and facilitates his reunion with Felix. The registrar proceeds to marry Nino and Felix on the same day.

In the aftermath, Nino undergoes gender confirmation surgery, while Bo gives birth to their child. The family reunites in the hospital, where Felix places their newborn in Nino's arms.

Cast

 * Monic Hendrickx - Sonja
 * Anneke Blok - Wanda
 * Sylvia Poorta - Michelle
 * Jacob Derwig - Nino
 * Halina Reijn - Bo
 * Theu Boermans - Hugo
 * Jaap Spijkers - Jan
 * Annet Nieuwenhuyzen - Moeder
 * Pieter Embrechts - Felix Delicious
 * Marisa van Eyle - Dorien

Reception
Zus & Zo has an approval rating of 40% on review aggregator website Rotten Tomatoes, based on 20 reviews, and an average rating of 4.9/10. Metacritic assigned the film a weighted average score of 50 out of 100, based on 9 critics, indicating "mixed or average reviews".

A. O. Scott of The New York Times said in 2003 that the acting, especially by the actresses portraying the three sisters, was "unassuming and precise," but he noted that the film suffers from being "inadvertently a little misogynistic." Eddie Cockrell of Variety described it as "a complicated confection" and remarked that "convoluted plot aside, [it is] universally understandable."